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How Should I Choose a





                     Community in Israel?







                                            Rabbi Reuven Taragin





        The decision
        C      ongratulations on your decision   of our avodat Hashem. Moving to a Jewish   more than just locations for tefillah and
                                                                                education. They are community centers
                                            community in a new country offers the
                                            unique opportunity to expose oneself to a
                                                                                around which the lives of community
               to make Aliyah!
                                                                                members revolve and by which members
                                            different environment and to people with
               Though you are realizing a
               dream, it is important to do so   a different understanding of avodat Hashem   identify themselves.
                                            – one that can enrich the perspective we
        with your eyes wide open. Proper prepa-  grew up with.                  This is generally not the case in Israeli
                                                                                communities – especially within cities.
        ration and planning will help your Aliyah                               A shul is a place to daven that may also
        be the best it can be.              Moving to Israel, in particular, offers an
                                            added opportunity – the ability to learn   arrange shiurim. It generally does not run
        One of the most significant decisions you   from people who grew up in a Jewish   social events and is not the focus of its
        need to make is where to live. On the one   state, in the holy land of Eretz Yisrael. Many   members’ lives. Many of those who take
        hand, moving to a “real” Israeli commu-  of those who grew up this way (especially   the fully Israeli path miss the sense of
        nity can facilitate a quicker and more   those less connected to the global vil-  community they had in chutz la’aretz.
        thorough integration. On the other hand,   lage culture) offer a fresh, more natural   Moving to a fully Israeli community is
        moving to an English-speaking or even   approach to avodat Hashem that can only   like jumping into the deep end. One who
        Anglo community makes the transition   be developed when our people are living   knows how to swim or is a quick learner
        easier.
                                            in Hashem’s Land.                   will manage to swim and ultimately
        An Israeli community                We should aim for our Aliyah to emulate   master swimming. Those not ready for
                                                                                the deep dive can find the experience over-
        Moving to a standard, “fully” Israeli com-  that of the first Jew, Avraham Avinu, whose   whelming and their Aliyah, chas v’shalom,
        munity has much to offer. First off, it is the   move to Eretz Yisrael included his discov-  unsuccessful.
        best way to learn about Israelis and Israeli   ery of his true self (Likutei Halachot, Hilchot
        culture and mannerisms. Each country   Shabbat 7). We too should seek to connect   An Anglo community
        has its culture and customs. Living and   with Eretz Yisrael and its people in a way   Settling in a community of “landsmen”
        building relationships with native Israelis   that helps us discover a more profound,   (those who originate from the same
        is the best way to familiarize yourself with   more authentic version of ourselves.  country) makes the transition techni-
        Israel.                             Moving to a fully Israeli community offers   cally easier and softens Aliyah’s cultural
        These relationships also widen and deepen   unique opportunities, but these opportu-  shift. Though people have moved coun-
        our perspective of Jewish life and our-  nities come with greater challenges and   tries, the religious and cultural manner-
        selves. The Mishnah defines the wise man   higher risks. Settling in a Hebrew-speak-  isms remain, to a large extent, the same.
        as “the one who learns from all people”   ing community is a major change in life-  They miss their communities abroad but
        (Avot 4:1). When we surround ourselves   style. Many only realize the importance   become part of a community at home in
        only with those who share our exact hash-  of their accustomed cultural norms once   Israel. Understandably, those who settle
        kafa and background, we limit our expo-  they make such a move.         in Anglo communities usually – at least
        sure to what we already know and miss a   One example of these norms is the sense   initially – find their Aliyah easier and are
        significant growth opportunity.     of community. As a minority living in a   generally more successful at making a
        When we settle in the same country we   foreign country, Orthodox Jews worldwide   smooth religious and social transition.
        were raised in, we generally continue with   form Jewish communities around shuls   The downside is that those who live in
        the same cultural milieu and perspective   and schools. These institutions serve as   these communities interface less with










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