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GENERAL INTEREST             SOCIAL COMMENTARY




                                                                                    Rabbi Chaim Navon








                              The Real Joy of Purim









              n a July day in 1518, Mrs. Trof-  A few years ago, Israeli high school   Still, when we drink and behave in mod-
              fea went out into the streets of   yeshiva students uploaded an offensive   eration, this custom has taste and mean-
      OStrasbourg and began to dance.        video as a promo for the upcoming    ing, within the boundaries of Purim.
       She danced for six days straight. In those   Purim celebrations. Their Principal
       six days, 34 people contracted her ‘fever’   responded appropriately and canceled   Sadly, the revelry of Adar in Israeli
       and joined the ongoing dance. Within a   the celebrations. My wife asked me if,   yeshiva high schools often crosses the
       month, there were hundreds of danc-   in my opinion, the punishment was not   boundaries of halacha and of respect-
       ers on the streets of the country who   excessive. I told her I didn’t think it was   fulness, and it is difficult to find any
       had been dancing for days on end. To   excessive at all. On the contrary. In my   educational value in such festivities. Tre-
       this day, no full explanation has been   opinion, all the revelry of Adar should be   mendous effort and enormous resources
       found for that dance fever. Some of the   cancelled in the yeshivas, even in insti-  are wasted on grandiose celebrations,
       dancers writhed in pain and begged for   tutions where the students know better   which are sometimes replete with vanity
       mercy but could not stop dancing. Some   than to publicize vulgar videos.  and insults. Some teachers are hesitant
       explain the incident as an outbreak of                                     to intervene, for fear they will just be
       mass hysteria. Many died from heart   Yes, it is accepted in our tradition that   ridiculed.
                                             on one day a year, for a few hours, the
       attacks, strokes or exhaustion.                                            The joy of youth is good and healthy.
                                             restraints are lifted a little. But even then
       A less fatal case occurred in Tanzania   it’s not good to exaggerate. The Gemara   But it is good and healthy in Adar in the
       in 1962. Three girls started laughing at   tells of a Sage who drank too much, and   same framework and in the same con-
       school and could not stop. Most of the   in his drunkenness, killed another Sage   text in which it is good in Cheshvan or
       boarding school students were infected   (then prayed for him and brought him   Iyar. This is how the Rambam described
       with the raging laughter. The principal   back to life). The Nimukei Yosef writes   the priorities of Purim: “It is better for
       was forced to close the school and send   that a person can drink on Purim, but   a person to increase the gifts for the
       the students home. The result was that   “should not go crazy in his drunkenness   poor than to add to his meal and send
       the residents of the nearby villages were   and be drawn to jest and frivolity.”  mishloach manot, for there is no greater
       also infected with the laughter epidemic.   Despite this, many are very stringent   and more glorious joy than to gladden
       14 schools in the area were closed for   about drunkenly letting go on Purim.   the hearts of the poor, orphaned, wid-
       extended periods, and mass laughter   This custom has been dressed in a cover   owed and converts.” This is the joy the
       ceased only after a year and a half. When   of ideology. As if drunkenness and let-  Rambam believed in: caring for others
       the three original laughers were asked   ting loose reveal one’s inner holiness.   and actively demonstrating responsibil-
       what was so funny to begin with, they   This is like saying we need to peel away   ity for the community.
       were unable to answer.
                                             a person’s skin to reveal his inner organs.
       Dancing and laughter are not always   Just as the skin is part of the body, not
       joyous activities. Sometimes they are   just a shell, self-control and restraint are
       just a forced expression of social dynam-  intrinsic parts of ourselves. When we
       ics. It is imperative to remember this,   abandon self-control, we are less human,   Rabbi Chaim Navon is a renowned author
       especially during the month of Adar.  not more.                            and educator.




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