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These men and women understood  Acceptance          does   not    mean  to where you want  to  go.  Power

        that  it was  never  outside  events,  throwing in the towel or quitti  ng.  is  letting  go  of  what  was  and


        people, or circumstances holding  It  means  to  stop  fi ghti ng what  is,  accepting what is.
        them  back  from  success.  It  was  pivot, and going with the fl ow. There

        their inability to overcome limiting  is another opportunity just around   The   world   will   always    be
        thoughts.                            the corner if you can stop looking   unpredictable    and    uncertain.

                                             at the past, which is impossible to   Fighting what you cannot control

        It is not COVID-19 that is stopping   change, and start focusing on what   is futile, but you have the power
        you  from  forward  movement;  it    you can do right now.                to remain grounded and choose
        is  your  inability  to  see  past  the                                   new  paths.  By  personifying  what
        challenges it presents.              Into The Thrive Mode                 you  want  to experience,  your
                                                                                  experience becomes you. The two
        My  stagnation  after  1988  was  There  are  companies, couples,         are inseparable.


        not  because  of  the  events  that  and  individuals  who  are  thriving
        happened to me, it was because I  during the pandemic. How? They          Sherry Winn Is a Two-Time Olympian,
        could not get past the events that  are  not  trying  to  survive  the    National  Basketball  Coach  of  The

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        There are two methods to cope        thinkers,  optimists,  or  just  plain   internationally  renowned  speaker
                                                                                  who  frequently  speaks  for  up  to
        with  the  current  uncertainty:     acknowledge that they don’t allow    14,000  people  at  a  time  including

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                                             thought flow.
        Resistance  means  reacting  to                                           AnyTime Fitness, New York Life, and


        the  events.  Reaction  is  the  panic   To  move  forward  in  this  time,  Technicolor.  With  over  34  years  of

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        prevents  control  of  the  situation.   ship.  Here  are  the  characteristics  expert at coaching leaders and team

        Panic  is  a  residue  from  all  the   needed to move forward:           members to championship status.
        past wounds in your life that were    Challenge yourself  to  think,  “So

        never resolved. I panicked in 1988    what? What now?”                    https://www.
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        Acceptance is flowing with rather      your imagination.


        than resisting the current situation.   See failure as part of the process

        Through acceptance, your mind is      toward success.
        clear,  thoughts  flow  freely,  and   Leave  blame  out  of

        opportunities become visible.         the  equation  and




        As  the  days  continue,  if  you  see   focus on what action
        only  the  struggle,  you  will  fold.   steps are possible.
        You  will  see  debt,  incapacity  to   Accept a new normal

        rise  above,  and  delve  into  what-  and flow with it.
        if-down thinking. One bad thought

        leads to another and another until   There  is  no  power  in
        all thoughts and actions are so deep   fear, blame, or excuses.

        into  the  rabbit  hole  that  taking   Power  comes  from

        positive steps appears impossible.   taking   responsibility
                                             from  where  you  are

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