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Family Legacy  Hold the Phone!

                                                      “If not for Healthnetwork I’d be in chemo
 I remember when my kids were little I felt   teve Hoyt’s wife and friends   and radiation right now. I probably
 like I would have done anything to see    S  wanted him to get a second   wouldn’t have any hair. I’ve talked to
 them grow up to be happy and healthy. Now   opinion, but Steve was   people who’ve been through that regimen
 they’re teenagers—and thank God, happy    reluctant. He’d already seen
 and healthy. And even though we’re smack    his primary doctor, a dermatologist, an   and it’s not friendly. I’d be in the middle
 in the middle of the awkward, sassy teen    oncologist, and a radiologist. Everyone   of it. Instead I’m enjoying life.”
 years, my desire for their wellbeing hasn’t   agreed: the lesion on his nose was cancer.
 diminished at all. I suspect no matter how    Why waste time and resources traveling
 old they are, I’m always going to want to    to another city for yet another opinion?    Not Lymphoma?
 help them enjoy the best life possible.  But to appease his loved ones, Steve
 I know I’m not the only parent who feels   agreed to go to the Mayo Clinic. He never   At first, it seemed like Steve’s doubts were
 this way.   imagined what a drastic difference it   justified. He spent the better part of a day at
 would make.
 This is how the Family Legacy program               Mayo Clinic and received the same news:
 began. We started hearing from some of our   Steve Hoyt squinted in the mirror.    Yes, it’s cancer. Dejected and sad, Steve made
 long-time families who said: “We’ve benefitted   That doesn’t look like acne. He made an   his way out of the hospital and back to the
 greatly from our Healthnetwork access, and   appointment with his dermatologist    parking garage. As he was pulling out of the
 we want to set up our kids and grandkids to   who agreed the lump looked strange.    garage, his phone rang. It was the hematologist.
 enjoy the same access even after we’re gone.”  She took a biopsy and told Steve the bad   “Hold the phone. It’s not lymphoma.”
 So we started a Family Legacy program, in   news: It looks like cancer. He saw his   A pathologist had run more tests and found
 which your children or other significant family   primary doctor, followed by an oncologist   that Steve did not have cancer. He had a
 members have their own GOLD supporter   and a radiologist. All of them gave    suppressed immune system because of another
 cards and can call us directly anytime. It turned   the same grim diagnosis: Lymphoma. At   medication he takes and an out-of-control
 out to be quite popular. Within the first two   71, Steve suddenly found himself facing    Steve Hoyt is a member of YPO and CEO and is    Epstein-Barr virus. Steve’s head spun. In a
 years, 40 families have joined.   a notoriously rough chemotherapy   the Founder of Hoyt Properties, Inc. in Minneapolis.   second, he had gone from having cancer to a
 I’m not surprised. Many of our families put   regimen involving five drugs, followed    Steve and his wife, Paula, are generous supporters    virus, from facing intense chemo to antibody
 a lot of careful thought into succession   by radiation. Steve spends winters    of Healthnetwork Foundation.  injections with relatively mild side effects.
 planning for the transfer of family businesses,   in Scottsdale, Arizona, where he usually   “I was relieved and surprised,” he says.
 property, and wealth. Of course you want to   enjoys golfing. Now he began making   “I’m very grateful someone behind the scenes
 pass on access to the best healthcare, as well.   plans to spend the winter going through   in pathology was willing to drill down deeper
 If you would like to learn more about    cancer treatment.  “Lesson learned: get a second opinion.   and figure it out.”
 the Family Legacy program or discuss    Preferably from a world-class hospital.”
 a gift through your estate plan to sustain   Second Opinion  Lesson Learned:
 Healthnetwork Foundation for future   Steve and his wife Paula helped form    Get a Second Opinion
 generations, I would be honored to speak   the first-ever CEO couples forum several   “If not for Healthnetwork I’d be in chemo
 with you. ✦  years ago. At one of the meetings last    Steve decided to cancel it. Do I really need to   and radiation right now,” Steve reflected in
 fall, Steve shared about his diagnosis.   do this? he thought. Why use up the insurance   early March at the time this article was
 Paula and longtime friends in the forum   company’s money? I have doctors here in   written. “I probably wouldn’t have any hair.
 leaned heavily on Steve to get a second   Minnesota who are plenty good. It is what it is.   I’ve talked to people who’ve been through
 opinion. He conceded and made a call    He emailed his Healthnetwork medical   that regimen and it’s not friendly. I’d be
 MEGAN FRANKEL  to Healthnetwork Foundation, who   coordinator, Ali Fisher, to let her know he   in the middle of it. Instead I’m not. I’m here,
 President  helped facilitate an appointment at the   would be canceling the appointment, and    enjoying life, still working as hard as I
 Healthnetwork Foundation
 +1 440-264-1923  Mayo Clinic in Rochester, not far from   she added her voice to that of his wife    usually do, traveling. It was a real God-send.
 mfrankel@  Steve’s primary residence in Minneapolis.   and friends and strongly urged him to keep    Lesson learned: get a second opinion.
 healthnetworkfoundation.org  But as the appointment day drew near,   the appointment. So off to Rochester he went.   Preferably from a world-class hospital.” ✦


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