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A Tribute to my Friend & Mentor



             There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven, a time to be born,
             and a time to die. Ecc. 3:1
             In 1981, not long after being employed by the Ministry of National
             Security  –  Department  of  Rehabilitative/Welfare  Services,  I  was
             redeployed to work at the Simpson Penn School for Boys formerly
             the Boys’ Industrial School.  I served in the capacity of Probation
             Officer.  That was when I officially met Mr. R. E. Dean, who served
             as Superintendent.   Mr. Dean warmly welcomed me to the school.
             I immediately saw his love for the boys and his passion for his job
             as Superintendent.
             Mr. Dean’s desire was to improve every area of the school; therefore, he encouraged me and
             eagerly supported every activity or program that I organized for the betterment and rehabilita-
             tion of the boys.  At the end of every careers day, summer program or workshop, just to name
             a few, he always congratulated me for a job well done.   On one occasion, Mr. Dean gave me a
             copy of a letter that he had sent to my supervisor at the Department of Rehabilitative/Welfare
             Services  commending me and  recommending that I be promoted for my outstanding work.
             I have never forgotten this gesture because people tend to never see the good that you do.
             As a result of his letter, I was given an accelerated increment.

             Every Monday morning Mr. Dean as well as the other office staff members would eagerly await
             my arrival to see what I had baked on the weekend.  One Monday, I informed them that I didn’t
             bring any cake for them because the cake had fallen, we bursted into laughter when Mr. Dean
             replied “Oh I love dumb cake.” I enjoy baking sweets; hence if anyone express love for my
             baking (especially my dumb cake) we would actually become real good friends.
             In 1984, when I was about to leave the Boys School to pursue a Masters Degree, Mr. Dean
             organized  a  surprise  farewell  party  for  me.  My  gifts  from  Superintendent  and  staff  were
             awesome. When I graduated from University, I asked to be redeployed to the Boy’s school.
             We maintained a wonderful family like atmosphere. Mr. Dean became a friend to my husband
             Rodney and our children. Our friendship continued even after I was transferred back to the
             Ministry.

             Whenever Rodney and I visited Mr. Dean and his wife Iris, they were always very happy to see
             us. By this time they were addicted to my banana bread. We would laugh and talk about the
             good old days when we worked at the Boys school, at length.  Rodney and I visited Mr and
             Mrs.  Dean  during  the  latter  part  of  February  2020.    We  were  warmly  welcomed  as  usual.
             At the end of our visit, we promised to return soon, with a loaf of banana bread.  Although we
             realized that Mr. Dean’s health had deteriorated since our previous visit, we had no idea that
             would have been the last time that we would see him alive.
             So although my good friend and mentor has gone to be with his Lord and Master, I’ll always
             remember  his  infectious  smile,  and  superior  style  of  leadership  as  well  as  his  support  for
             everything good.
             Goodbye my friend, until we meet again.

                                            Mrs. Andrea Darling-Eve



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