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Girl, Move The F*ck On!




                       I have a cousin named Samantha that is the sweetest, lovable, and most gullible woman


               that I know. Samantha has had this “best friend” since she was in the third grade named Chloe.

               I have no idea what made them be friends in school because they were the total opposite of


               each other. Chloe was the queen of gossip even as a child and the gossip maximized as an adult.


               I remember asking Chloe last year why she wouldn’t start a gossip blog or site. At least get paid


               for the messiness that you keep spreading. I would hear things about who my cousin Samantha

               was dating and everything she did in “Vegas”. When I would ask Samantha who would be


               spreading her personal business around like that she would always say the same thing: “You

               know how Chloe is. Just a blabbermouth”. She always easily brushed off the blatant disrespect


               by blaming it on Chloe’s personality.




                       I do not personally understand the want to hang around messy people. They always


               keep up drama everywhere they go. What is benefit of being friends with someone who you


               can’t confide in? Character flaws are not birthmarks. You can change them if you choose too.

               Anyone that cannot respect the value of your friendship are not your friends at all. They do not


               really like you. They find joy in being able to spread around everything they know about you.


               You are pure entertainment to them, like the little monkey with the red hat and symbols.




                       Also, frenemies usually love when you do things for them. Maybe you normally pick up


               the tab most of the time on girls’ trips or outings, lend them money, babysit their children, or

               something of that nature. Do you do these things for one friend and she seems to get angry or


               upset that you helped someone else out? You may have told yourself that the friend is a little
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