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eyes) and to flexibly process this information to create learning
                       and adaptation.

                          I have found that most people have problems being assertive
                       and  open-minded  at  the  same  time.  Typically  they  are  more
                       inclined to be assertive than open-minded (because it’s easier to

                       convey how they see things than to understand how others do,
                       and also because people tend to have ego attachments to being
                       right)  though  some  people  are  too  willing  to  accept  others’
                       views  at  the  expense  of  their  own.  It’s  important  to  remind
                       people  that  they  have  to  do  both—and  to  remember  that
                       decision making is a two-step process in which one has to take

                       in information as well as decide. It also helps to remind people
                       that  those  who  change  their  minds  are  the  biggest  winners
                       because they learned something, whereas those who stubbornly
                       refuse to see the truth are losers. With practice, training, and
                       constant reinforcement, anyone can get good at this.

                       a.  Distinguish  open-minded  people  from  closed-minded  people.  Open-
                       minded people seek to learn by asking questions; they realize
                       how little they know in relation to what there is to know and

                       recognize  that  they  might  be  wrong;  they  are  thrilled  to  be
                       around  people  who  know  more  than  they  do  because  it
                       represents  an  opportunity  to  learn  something.  Closed-minded
                       people  always  tell  you  what  they  know,  even  if  they  know
                       hardly  anything.  They  are  typically  uncomfortable  being
                       around those who know a lot more than they do.

                       b.  Don’t  have  anything  to  do  with  closed-minded  people.  Being  open-
                       minded is much more important than being bright or smart. No

                       matter how much they know, closed-minded people will waste
                       your time. If you must deal with them, recognize that there can
                       be no helping them until they open their minds.

                       c. Watch  out  for  people  who  think  it’s  embarrassing  not  to  know. They’re
                       likely  to  be  more  concerned  with  appearances  than  actually
                       achieving the goal; this can lead to ruin over time.


                       d.  Make  sure  that  those  in  charge  are  open-minded  about  the  questions  and
                       comments of others. The person responsible for a decision must be
                       able to explain the thinking behind it openly and transparently
                       so that everyone can understand and assess it. In the event of

                       disagreement, an appeal should be made to either the decision
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