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My Journey so far                                                                                                       Edward’s Story                      “Edward’s sister was only 23 months when Edward
                                                                                                                                                                                     was born and has suffered with separation anxiety
                                                                                                                                                                                     ever since, even though she is now 9. Something I
                                                                                                                                                                                     wish I had known more about was the impact that
                                                                                                                                                  By Mum, Emma                       CHD can have on siblings so I could have prepared a
                          By Tom Wilkinson                                                                                                                                           bit better.”


                                                               “I fell asleep and missed breakfast and so was asked                                                                  “Edward is now a happy, funny and
                                                               if there was anything I would like to eat, I replied,          “We discovered Edward had a Ventricular Septal         loving 7 year old. He is a great long
        “I was born in Grimsby in 1989 and after just a few    ‘a full English please!’. Much to my dismay, that’s            Defect (VSD) at our 20 week scan and at birth they     jumper and loves running, he does a
        hours it was discovered I had a heart condition -      exactly what I got…even though I was only joking!”             also found Coarctation of the Aorta (CoA). He had      2k park run every Sunday morning
        Pulmonary Atresia. At just seven days old, I was                                                                      heart surgery at 8 days old to repair the CoA, patch   and sometimes does the 5k adult
        operated on at Killingbeck Hospital in Leeds with      “Today, despite the odds, I am approaching my 30th             the VSD and put a pulmonary artery band on.”           park run!”
        my parents being told after my surgery that I had      birthday. Getting to this point in my life has been
        just two weeks to live.                                immensely challenging, yet strangely easy. I believe           “We didn’t see Edward until the early hours of the     “He is passionate about running and takes enormous
                                                               it’s about support, mind-set and determination.”               next morning. He looked very swollen and his chest     pride in being able to do everything his friends can
        “I’ve experienced four open heart operations. I also                                                                  was still open however he looked peaceful and not      do, something we originally didn’t expect.”
        suffered meningitis at the age of four, and have       “I couldn’t have done it without                               in pain. Edward did well and came out of ICU after 5
        recently undergone surgery for a hernia and a stent    my parents, my brother and in                                  days. We managed to go home when he was only 3         “Edward is extremely proud of what a special boy
        - I think it’s fair to say I’ve been through the mill!”  recent years my wife and our two                             weeks old!”                                            he is. He loves talking about his scar and has done
                                                               children Isabelle and Christian -                                                                                     a presentation about himself at school - his friends
        “I remember my hospital stay in 1997. I remember       who give me a new focus, and                                   “Edward only remembers having lots                     think he is amazing!”
        having the giggles on the children’s ward with three   certainly keep me active!”                                     of appointments and he struggled
        other patients in the early hours of the morning. I                                                                   for a long time being handled - even                   “For me Children’s Heart Surgery Fund has brought
        can’t remember what was funny, but the nurse had       “All these things no one                                       with everyday things like getting                      a real sense of being part of a community, I feel
        to close the ward doors we were that noisy! It was     thought possible in 1989.                                      his hair cut or feet measured. The                     there is always someone there to support us and it’s
        great to mix with others, we just had fun. We never    Of course, there are many                                      doctors were very patient and by 4                     so reassuring. We visit the ward twice a year to take
        really appreciated what we were all going through.”    medical professionals in                                       years old he relaxed completely. He                    in toys and money which our family also contribute
                                                               Leeds to whom I owe so                                         is a brilliant patient these days.”                    towards - it’s lovely to give something back!”
                                                               much. I live my life knowing I have
                                                               been extremely lucky and take nothing for granted.”
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                                                                 something back.”                                              In the last year our charity has helped more babies, children and adults with congenital heart
        “2009 was very different. It was the first time I                                                                      disease than ever before and as CHSF grows, so does our workforce!
        signed my own consent form - an experience,              In the last few years,
        made even harder by having to sign it on my 20th         Tom has been working
        birthday. It was a very emotional time, but I knew       closely with doctors
        I was in the hands of incredible doctors, surgeons       and physiotherapists on
        and anaesthetists.”                                      a new Fontan exercise
                                                                 programme - looking at
        “My operation lasted over 17 hours and afterwards        how different muscles
        I was rushed back into theatre on three separate         affect our hearts and how
        occasions. I also had a lung operation shortly after     it functions.
        to correct a complication.”                              Tom says “Building knowledge for the future                        Georgie Abbott              Fay Richardson            Sara Dawson-Jones            Olivia Richardson
                                                                 is hugely important. Those of us with heart                     Corporate Partnerships      Corporate Partnerships           Fundraising              Digital Marketing
                                                                                                                                                                   Manager
                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Executive
                                                                                                                                        Manager
                                                                                                                                                                                               Assistant
        “Nearly 14 days after, I awoke. I was totally oblivious   conditions are in the unique position of being
        to what had unfolded and was told later on how           able to help develop more understanding of this                     With Fay, I am           Alongside, Georgie,         My role at Children’s      My role is to manage
        close to the mark it had been. I am very proud, and      complex organ.”                                                     responsible for             I manage our             Heart Surgery Fund         and develop our social
        immensely grateful.”                                                                                                         managing our              relationships with         is to support all staff      media platforms,
                                                                 “I look at my past experiences as an opportunity                   partnerships with          CHSF’s supporters           in the fundraising         website and digital
        “That was the most challenging time in my life,          to help, and make a difference - this is my way of               corporate supporters.          in the business           team, and provide          presence. I work to
        however I always kept a sense of humour. While           giving something back.”                                            I’m always on the           community. It’s            effective customer        raise awareness of the
        in intensive care one evening, I demanded to be          “Every time I see my doctors, or have any medical                  look out for new          inspiring to see how       service to our amazing       charity and highlight
        woken up at 5am - there was a Grand Prix on              procedures, I make sure I shake their hand and                  opportunities for CHSF       generous businesses           fundraisers and            its valuable work
                                                                                                                                    to raise its profile
        and I wouldn’t let a heart operation stop me from        say thank you. They are doing a fantastic job, we                amongst the business        across our region can      members of the public       throughout the region.

                                                                                                                                                                                            who support our
                                                                                                                                                              be and we are always
        watching it!”                                            must always support and respect them.”                               community.                looking for more!               charity!               I like to sing, play
                                                                                                                                                                                                                        music and take
                                                                                                                                  On my days off I like       In my part time I love     When I’m not at CHSF        photographs - as well
                                                                                                                                  relaxing with a book         going to festivals,        I enjoy spending time        as trying as many
               Have these stories inspired you to tell your own? We’d love to hear them. We are incredibly grateful to our        and looking after my        travelling and trying         at home with my           different foods and
            supporters who are willing to share their experiences with congenital heart disease. If you would like to share your   10 month old puppy!        out new restaurants.       husband and two dogs.         cuisines as I can!
               story, please email bravehearts@chsf.org.uk. And if you feel inspired to help visit chsf.org.uk/get-involved

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