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My Journey so far        Edward’s Story                      “Edward’s sister was only 23 months when Edward
                                                              was born and has suffered with separation anxiety
                                                              ever since, even though she is now 9. Something I
                                                              wish I had known more about was the impact that
                           By Mum, Emma                       CHD can have on siblings so I could have prepared a
 By Tom Wilkinson                                             bit better.”


 “I fell asleep and missed breakfast and so was asked         “Edward is now a happy, funny and
 if there was anything I would like to eat, I replied,   “We discovered Edward had a Ventricular Septal   loving 7 year old. He is a great long
 “I was born in Grimsby in 1989 and after just a few   ‘a full English please!’. Much to my dismay, that’s   Defect (VSD) at our 20 week scan and at birth they   jumper and loves running, he does a
 hours it was discovered I had a heart condition -   exactly what I got…even though I was only joking!”  also found Coarctation of the Aorta (CoA). He had   2k park run every Sunday morning
 Pulmonary Atresia. At just seven days old, I was   heart surgery at 8 days old to repair the CoA, patch   and sometimes does the 5k adult
 operated on at Killingbeck Hospital in Leeds with   “Today, despite the odds, I am approaching my 30th   the VSD and put a pulmonary artery band on.”  park run!”
 my parents being told after my surgery that I had   birthday. Getting to this point in my life has been
 just two weeks to live.   immensely challenging, yet strangely easy. I believe   “We didn’t see Edward until the early hours of the   “He is passionate about running and takes enormous
 it’s about support, mind-set and determination.”  next morning. He looked very swollen and his chest   pride in being able to do everything his friends can
 “I’ve experienced four open heart operations. I also   was still open however he looked peaceful and not   do, something we originally didn’t expect.”
 suffered meningitis at the age of four, and have   “I couldn’t have done it without   in pain. Edward did well and came out of ICU after 5
 recently undergone surgery for a hernia and a stent   my parents, my brother and in   days. We managed to go home when he was only 3   “Edward is extremely proud of what a special boy
 - I think it’s fair to say I’ve been through the mill!”  recent years my wife and our two   weeks old!”  he is. He loves talking about his scar and has done
 children Isabelle and Christian -                            a presentation about himself at school - his friends
 “I remember my hospital stay in 1997. I remember   who give me a new focus, and   “Edward only remembers having lots   think he is amazing!”
 having the giggles on the children’s ward with three   certainly keep me active!”  of appointments and he struggled
 other patients in the early hours of the morning. I   for a long time being handled - even   “For me Children’s Heart Surgery Fund has brought
 can’t remember what was funny, but the nurse had   “All these things no one   with everyday things like getting   a real sense of being part of a community, I feel
 to close the ward doors we were that noisy! It was   thought possible in 1989.   his hair cut or feet measured. The   there is always someone there to support us and it’s
 great to mix with others, we just had fun. We never   Of course, there are many   doctors were very patient and by 4   so reassuring. We visit the ward twice a year to take
 really appreciated what we were all going through.”  medical professionals in   years old he relaxed completely. He   in toys and money which our family also contribute
 Leeds to whom I owe so   is a brilliant patient these days.”  towards - it’s lovely to give something back!”
 much. I live my life knowing I have
 been extremely lucky and take nothing for granted.”
        Meet the newest recruits...
 “This is my way of giving

 something back.”  In the last year our charity has helped more babies, children and adults with congenital heart
 “2009 was very different. It was the first time I   disease than ever before and as CHSF grows, so does our workforce!
 signed my own consent form - an experience,   In the last few years,
 made even harder by having to sign it on my 20th   Tom has been working
 birthday. It was a very emotional time, but I knew   closely with doctors
 I was in the hands of incredible doctors, surgeons   and physiotherapists on
 and anaesthetists.”  a new Fontan exercise
 programme - looking at
 “My operation lasted over 17 hours and afterwards   how different muscles
 I was rushed back into theatre on three separate   affect our hearts and how
 occasions. I also had a lung operation shortly after   it functions.
 to correct a complication.”  Tom says “Building knowledge for the future   Georgie Abbott   Fay Richardson   Sara Dawson-Jones   Olivia Richardson
 is hugely important. Those of us with heart   Corporate Partnerships   Corporate Partnerships   Fundraising  Digital Marketing
                                            Manager
                                                                                                   Executive
                Manager
                                                                        Assistant
 “Nearly 14 days after, I awoke. I was totally oblivious   conditions are in the unique position of being
 to what had unfolded and was told later on how   able to help develop more understanding of this   With Fay, I am   Alongside, Georgie,   My role at Children’s   My role is to manage
 close to the mark it had been. I am very proud, and   complex organ.”  responsible for   I manage our   Heart Surgery Fund   and develop our social
 immensely grateful.”  managing our     relationships with         is to support all staff      media platforms,
 “I look at my past experiences as an opportunity   partnerships with   CHSF’s supporters   in the fundraising   website and digital
 “That was the most challenging time in my life,   to help, and make a difference - this is my way of   corporate supporters.   in the business   team, and provide   presence. I work to
 however I always kept a sense of humour. While   giving something back.”    I’m always on the   community. It’s   effective customer   raise awareness of the
 in intensive care one evening, I demanded to be   “Every time I see my doctors, or have any medical   look out for new   inspiring to see how   service to our amazing   charity and highlight
 woken up at 5am - there was a Grand Prix on   procedures, I make sure I shake their hand and   opportunities for CHSF   generous businesses   fundraisers and   its valuable work
             to raise its profile
 and I wouldn’t let a heart operation stop me from   say thank you. They are doing a fantastic job, we   amongst the business   across our region can   members of the public   throughout the region.

                                                                     who support our
                                       be and we are always
 watching it!”  must always support and respect them.”  community.  looking for more!  charity!  I like to sing, play
                                                                                                 music and take
           On my days off I like       In my part time I love     When I’m not at CHSF        photographs - as well
           relaxing with a book         going to festivals,       I enjoy spending time         as trying as many
 Have these stories inspired you to tell your own? We’d love to hear them. We are incredibly grateful to our   and looking after my   travelling and trying   at home with my   different foods and
 supporters who are willing to share their experiences with congenital heart disease. If you would like to share your   10 month old puppy!  out new restaurants.  husband and two dogs.  cuisines as I can!
 story, please email bravehearts@chsf.org.uk. And if you feel inspired to help visit chsf.org.uk/get-involved

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