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                                       By Nicola Davies, PhD



        Reducing Your Mental Fat: Coping with Self-destructive Behaviors


        Weight management isn’t just about  it came from and what you could do  ing lifestyle changes seem even more
        tackling body fat. It also includes tack-  to prevent it from happening again.  difficult. Rather than concentrating on
        ling “mental fat.”                                                   exercise per se, focus on doing some-
                                           Retrain your brain                thing you enjoy. If you have a dog, get
        What is mental fat?                Calm your mind so you can focus on  into the habit of taking him or her for
        Mental fat is comprised of the  changing ingrained unhealthy thoughts  a walk each day. Plan an outing, like a
        unhealthy attitudes and habits that  and behaviors. Lie comfortably on your  visit to a national park, a zoo or even
        get in the way of weight management.  back, arms at your sides, palms upward.  a route past some historical buildings
        Examples include the following:    Softly close your eyes and listen to your  you’ve always wanted to view. Physical
                                           breathing—breathe in for a count of  activity keeps your mind focused on
        •  Giving into deeply ingrained unhealthy   four, hold for two and breathe out for a  your external surroundings during times
            eating rituals.                count of six. Concentrate on filling your  when you are most at risk of negative
        •  Fearing what others might say about your     body with revitalizing oxygen—from  thoughts or mental fat.
            attempts at making a serious change.   your stomach, into your chest and even
        •  Postponing lifestyle change and    through your neck and shoulders. When   Increase serotonin levels
            blaming it on something you feel is   you breathe out, constrict the back of the  Committing to weight management
            beyond your control.           throat so you are creating a sound like a  is harder when you feel unhappy with
                                           wave receding from a sandy shore. Dur-  your body. However, the more active you
           In order to successfully reach your  ing this time, be aware of your breath,  are, the more of the neurotransmitter
        weight management and emotional  your life force. Set your intentions for  serotonin is produced, leading to an
        health goals, it is important to identify  the day, resolving to be present in each  increased sense of well-being. Exercise,
        the mental fat that may be sabotaging  moment and to care for your body.  massage and exposure to sunlight all
        your efforts. If you don’t feel ready to                             increase serotonin levels. Increased sero-
        examine your mental fat, you may find   Replace mental fat           tonin will lift your mood, reducing the
        it difficult to motivate yourself. This  Create a list of goals to help you avoid  risk of caving in to the pressure of your
        means any changes you make will only  destructive behaviors that result from  mental fat.
        yield short-term results.          mental fat by giving the brain positive
                                           actions to concentrate on.        Avoid overly restrictive diets
        Set yourself up for success                                          Your mind will rebel against denial. No
        Make time to look after yourself. The   •  Eat five servings of vegetables and fruit today  pizza ever again? No slice of chocolate
        first mental fat hurdle to overcome   • Get eight hours sleep        cake? That’s precisely what your mind
        is the belief that you are too busy to   • Drink two liters of water  will focus on, so adopt a lifestyle in which
        exercise, prepare healthy meals and eat   •  Write three positive affirmations    no food is completely out of bounds.
        mindfully. Reducing such mental fat is      about myself             Moderation, not denial, is the key to
        a lifestyle decision. If you eat too much   • Walk X amount of steps  weight management. †
        on any one day, forgive yourself—don’t
        indulge in self-hate and eat more as a   Find the fun in exercise    Nicola Davies, PhD, is a health psychologist
        punishment or to increase your feel-  When issues like work demands, family  and author of I Can Beat Obesity! Finding the
        ings of guilt. Instead, write down what  pressure and personal feelings get in the  Motivation, Confidence and Skills to Lose Weight
        mental fat led to your behavior, where  way, stress can add to mental fat, mak-  and Avoid Relapse.
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