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                                                                                            Class VIII
       Developing The Right Attitude
                                                               and should try to see things in a positive light.
     “Your  living  is  determined  not  so  much  by  what  life
     brings to you as by the attitude you bring to life; not so   In the end, there is an absolutely brilliant saying that sums
     much by what happens to you as by the way your mind       up everything:
     looks at what happens” – Kahlil Gibran                    “It  does  not  matter  how  long  you  are  spending  on  the

                                                               earth, how much money you have gathered or how much
     A positive attitude is the guide to leading a positive life.   attention you have received. It is the amount of positive
     Maintaining  a  positive  attitude  through  the  ups  and   vibration you have radiated in life that matters.” – Amit Ray
     downs is important to every aspect of life; your social                                Shruthi Subramanian, VIII A
     status, your work, your health and your relationships.
                                                               “You  cannot  control  what  happens  to  you,  but  you  can
     There  is  a  famous  saying  that  states  that  “Seeing   control your attitude towards what happens to you, and in
     someone  happy  does  not  mean  that  everything  in     that you will be mastering change rather than allowing it
     his/her life is perfect. Rather he or she has chosen to   to master you” – Brian Tracy
     overlook the imperfections in their life”
                                                               When we observe carefully around us, we learn that the
     That  is  exactly  the  way  how  one  should  go  about  in   world is a difficult place to live. It is not an easy task for
     life. Humans are imperfect and therefore the world is     anyone on this earth to survive and lead a peaceful life.
     imperfect and this is something we should learn early in
     our lives. If we do not accept this fact and keep getting   Problems  are  there  and  they  will  remain  in  place  and
     depressed  and  angry  about  what  people  or  external   never go away. We will solve one problem and another
     factors  do  to  us,  it  will  all  eventually  lead  to  total   one will arise. This is a cycle that will continue throughout
     depression and total disaster.                            our lives. Therefore, it is important that we face this life
                                                               and its difficulties with good-will, enthusiasm and positive
     Attitude  is  a  choice  that  we  need  to  make.  We  can   attitude.
     choose  to  alter  our  attitude  towards  positivity  or
     negativity and all that happens to us is because of us    Life is a phase where people learn to show equanimity,
     only. We cannot blame anyone else for the way we feel     compassion,  kindness,  joy,  anger,  sympathy,  etc.
     and the way we see the world. All that really matters     Sometimes we might feel fed up and decide to run away
     is the fact that we give it our best shot and should not   from problems. This is very common as people face many
     have any regrets. Positive attitude literarily takes all the   difficulties. When stressed out we should take a break and
     unhappiness,  pain  and  negativity  away  from  our  life.   go to a place where we like to be the most. We have to be
     So,  please  keep  a  positive  attitude  in  life,  work  hard   satisfied with everything we get and be happy with things
     towards your goal and keep the positive attitude going    that happen.
     under  all  circumstances.  Eventually,  we  will  all  leave
     our destination and achieve our desired goals and the     First, we must learn to respect others. Some feel that specific
     world will be a much better place to live.                people whom they don’t like do not deserve respect. This
                                                               is  a  wrong  interpretation.  No  matter  how  they  are  or
     We cannot control others and we cannot change others.     what they do or did, everyone deserves respect. Everyone
     The only thing that we can control and change is our      warrants a chance to turn over a new leaf. Second, people
     attitude. Once we alter our attitude, the world all of a   must learn to say sorry, thank you and please. It makes a
     sudden looks a rosy place and everything seem to fall     person take to an immediate liking towards you.
     into place. As human beings, we need to learn to be
     thankful and happy in all situations. No matter what the   I conclude by saying that developing the right attitude is
     circumstances, we should always give it our best shot     the key to success. I would like to sum up by quoting:
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