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The  biggest  problem  with  skip-days  like  these  is  that  they

               eventually lead to quitting or giving up. The one-time exception


               then becomes the rule.




               Getting off track can make it very difficult to get back on track.

               That’s why Zen encourages establishing a daily routine as we will


               see in an upcoming chapter.



               For now, let’s talk a bit amore about rationalization.




               You use rationalization when you try to justify less than optimal

               behavior or feelings. So what you’re doing is finding a way to distort


               facts to make things appear better than they actually are.




               Here’s something to think about- you say you’re going to follow a

               diet plan but that only lasts the first three days. Or you have every


               intention of going to the gym, since you got a membership, but only

               do it once.




               So what happens here? A few possibilities could be that you aren’t

               serious about it, you forget why it’s important or it becomes too


               difficult. You may also give up in disappointment or you start to

               rationalize.





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