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Happiness isn’t something that you can get from external things

               but comes from within you. It is also not something that happens


               to you but something that you make happen. And remember that

               you’ll never find happiness if you keep looking in the wrong places.




               To  look  for  happiness  outside  yourself  stops  you  from  being


               yourself. So instead of searching for happiness, just be yourself and

               you’ll find that happiness will come to you.




               Some people experience a sense of happiness through giving. This

               is because giving connects you with others. So if that’s where you

               feel happy, then give away generously.




               You may also have reminisced over the past thinking about those


               “happier days”. But if you think hard enough and try to remember

               why  were  you  happy  at  the  time  that  you now  consider  to  be  a


               happier time? You’ll probably realize that you never took note of

               your happiness as you experienced it. This is because in your mind

               happiness  is  something  that  lives  in  the  memory  rather  than


               something you consciously experience. To associate happiness with

               either the past or the future leaves no room for it in the present.












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