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In essence, it’s an attempt to hold on to meaningless issues for more

               meaningful ones. When letting go you need to realize that walking


               away from certain situations is a step forward. In fact, there are

               times when certain things in your life aren’t meant to stay.




               Perhaps the most difficult part about letting go is moving out of


               your  comfort  zone  and  into  new  territory.  But  remember  that

               change happens for a reason and you should be ready to embrace

               it.




               Consider  the  example  of  a  couple  who  splits.  Either  way,  both

               parties involved will be impacted but until and unless they let go,


               can’t they reduce the impact.




               Holding onto pain or unpleasant memories doesn’t fix anything. If

               anything, it holds you back. It could be a tragedy, or an untimely


               death leaving you pining for what could’ve been. You yearn for what

               should’ve been or what you feel you were entitled to.




               It could also be a dream, a desire, a hope or a wish. Something that

               you may have wanted for years but never actualized.












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