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First, make a list of the people you spend the MOST time with.

Second, write down a list of people that make you feel negative, anxious, angry, etc (this is
private, don’t share with anyone LOL)

Third, ask yourself WHY these people get to be in your circle!

Many think you CAN’T “fire” your family, I call removing toxic people in my life, firing them.
Not to dive too deep into my own personal situation, but I have had to “fire” several family
members and friends throughout my mindset shift!

Doesn’t mean you STOP loving them, doesn’t mean you are mean to them. To “fire” someone
can mean 3 things.

1. Do not hang out with them as much or not at all
2. Remove yourself from situations when they start being negative
3. Ask them to STOP when they start with the negativity

I understand that you can’t REMOVE co-workers when you work with them daily, but you can
create boundaries, or come to a mutual understanding with these people.

Have a conversation, privately, about how they make you feel, they may not realize it, and
might even work towards NOT being that way.

If you know a conversation cannot be done, then FIRE them completely, take that trash out!
(another one of my sayings I use in my trainings)

If your family, friends, etc aren’t willing to be supportive and loving during your change, or your
journey, then you do not need to give them your energy, when others will be glad to give you
what you require!

(that doesn’t mean they NEED to join you or help you financially, just not bring negativity or
disbelief in you)

P.S. Knowing your requirements in life is KEY. Understanding proper boundaries are key! We
all have a moral compass, know your own personal requirements, and understand what you
require from others around you.

If this is a NEW thing, understand that your change, is also a change for others, so give people
the chance to respect your requirements, and boundaries, and IF they can’t, “fire” them!

BEING SUCCESSFUL IN BUSINESS ALSO MEANS BEING SUCCESSFUL IN LIFE.
IF YOU ARE IN UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS, OR PART TAKE IN UNHEALTHY LIFESTYLE
CHOICES, YOUR SUCCESS IN BUSINESS WILL BE EFFECTED BY THIS.