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 And as a person engages in the work of the will on a fundamental   We are all very familiar with the fact that in order to receive a   other sweets, the craving for eating takes hold of him, he cannot
 level, he uses his will to contemplate that it is not food that gives   university degree a person must spend a number of years learning   control himself, and he forgets about all of the dangers. He does
 life. Rather, only Hashem gives life. He then acquires the simple   and receiving training. A person with only a slight understanding   not see the doctors, he does not see his situation, he does not see
 faith that Hashem can give life even if he only eats a little. As the   of  healing is  not called a doctor;  a person with  only a slight   the grave results of his actions, he does not see all of his friends
 verse states, “The righteous man eats to satiate his appetite, but the   understanding of law is not called a lawyer. A person must make   and relatives who died from diabetes or who suffer terribly from
 stomach of the wicked shall feel want” (Proverbs 13:25). A person   a long-term investment, and only after he proceeds on the entire   the disease. He does not see anything. He only wants to satisfy his
 who eats with faith and without cravings lives even with very little   path does he receive his degree and title. In academic learning, not   craving. And after he does so, he is sensible of the evil inclination
 food. But when a person eats because he is driven by cravings, then   everyone is accepted into the program and not everyone receives   having deceived him, and he views himself as lacking character and
 even all the food in the world will not suffice to satiate his cravings,   the title. And even a person who has a title will not necessarily find   lacking self-control. Nevertheless, in the next test, when craving
 and he will always feel empty and lacking.  work. But in the work of the will, everyone is equal and everyone   again surges up within him, he forgets everything. Again and again,
          attains the goal! “Hashem is close to all who call out to Him” (Psalms        he falls prey to his craving. And so it is with all cravings and with
 Moreover, bear in mind that not only does overeating not give   145:18). Whoever commits himself to engage in a daily meeting   all addictions.
 life, but it diminishes a person’s life. This is well-known from the   with the Creator of the world and does so steadily, every day, will
 medical literature—principally, the  book  of  the  great  leader  of   certainly receive the title, whoever he may be, and he will succeed   In our generation, the craving for eating has grown extremely
 Israel, the Rambam, who was also the greatest of physicians: “A   in being led until he reaches his place and his purpose.  powerful. One of the plagues of the generation is the obesity that
 person should not eat to such an extent that his belly is filled….                     results in a profusion of problems of body and soul: diabetes, heart
 Most diseases that afflict a person result either from bad food or   To Bring about a Change  problems,  spiritual difficulties and  impaired  functionality. People
 from the fact that he fills his belly and eats in a coarse manner, even                are so broken, depressed and hopeless that they are beguiled by the
 if he eats good foods. This is in keeping with the statement that   This is a  point  that is very  important to  internalize.  Ask  any   magical nostrums of all sorts of diets. Many charlatans exploit this
 Solomon made in his wisdom: ‘A person who guards his mouth   person, “Do you want to know and keep the entire Torah?” He will   situation in order to grow rich at the expense of these unfortunate
 and his tongue guards himself from troubles’ (Proverbs 21:23). That                    people, and sell them preparations and books. All of these lead
 refers to a person who guards his mouth from eating bad food or   tell you, “Yes, certainly.” “Do you want a holy mouth, holy eyes,   them astray, because there is no magic solution. All there is here
          to be constantly joyful, to have good traits and be at peace? Do
 from overeating, and [who guards] his tongue from speaking of   you want to stop smoking?” Yes, certainly. Everyone wants these   is the craving of the evil inclination—which, the Gemara testifies,
 anything besides what is necessary…” (Mishneh Torah: Hilchot Dei’ot   things. Then why doesn’t everyone succeed? There is a spiritual   a person lacks the power to overcome. If a person does not learn
 4). And it is stated in Likutei Moharan I 257: “When a person eats   principle, a spiritual law, that a person is led in the way that he   the principles and perform the work described in this book, nothing
 more than he needs, that food harms him…. When he eats more                            will help him.
 than he needs, that food cannot receive vitality from him, since the   wants to go. That law never changes! If so, why doesn’t everyone
          succeed  in learning and keeping  the  entire  Torah? Why  doesn’t
 person does not need that food…. The food seeks vitality to give   everyone attain all of the highest spiritual levels?  The final surrender to the craving for eating is bariatric surgery,
 itself life, and it extracts the life force of that person, and in that                an operation that reduces the size of the stomach. That is the stage
 way it harms him. As a result, even other foods join with it and   Without a doubt, these people simply do not possess sufficient will.   at which the sufferer has thrown up his hands in despair. After so
 harm him.” That is to say, either you receive life from food or the   Every intention is important and precious, but not every intention   many failed attempts, he finally reaches the Gemara’s conclusion
 food receives life from you. When you overeat, not only do you   can  bring  about  a change,  because not every  intent triggers the   that he lacks the power to overcome his evil inclination. But he
 not receive life from the superfluous food, but even the food that   spiritual principle that “in the way that a person wishes to go, he   only learns half of the conclusion, because the other half is that “if
 you require harms you.  is led.” In order to be led from heaven, a person must earn the   not for the fact that the Holy One, blessed be He, helps him, he
          title of “wants.” And in order to attain that title, he must set aside        could not overcome it.” He only realizes half of the truth—that by
 When we do the work of the will, we must strengthen ourselves   time every day to apply his will. That is the point that we must   himself he does not have the power to succeed—and he thus tries
 with an abundance of faith that only Hashem and not food grants   understand  and implement. That is  the tool by means  of  which   to overcome his craving by force, by eliminating his ability to make
 life and happiness. As a result, we earn in multiple ways: we leave                    choices via an operation to reduce the size of his stomach.
          everyone can be said to “want” and to be a “master of will.” Then
          heaven leads him. As a result, he will truly change within. It makes            When  people  consult me  about whether  to  undergo  this
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