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Torah and his learning will be enhanced.
                                                            minimizes his socialization will free up time to study
                                                            In this chapter I will discuss the idea that one who
                                                                       153  ’11.
                                                            discipline one’s speech.
                                                            that govern \ that are relevant to the obligation to
                                                            In this chapter I will discuss the conditions (qualities)
                                                                       143  ’10.
                                                            within one’s speech.
                                                            speaks.  Perhaps one of these aspects is contained
                                                            of forbidden speech that must be avoided when one
                                                            In this chapter I will discuss ten different aspects
                                                                       133  ‘9.
                                                            one’s speech.
                                                            that are the outcome of one’s obligation to discipline
                                                            In this chapter I will explain 16 virtues (benefits)
                                                                       101  ‘8.
                                                            likely to exceed his merits.
                                                            of one who does not discipline his speech are very
                                                            on  one’s  speech  and  thought.   The  transgressions
                                                            the discipline (yoke) of mitzvot that are contingent
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                                                                  ‘7.
                                                            In this chapter I will explain the obligation to accept
                                                            sin.
                                                            and lies in ambush there in order to cause him to
                                                            Hara crouches by the openings of his mouth (lips)
                                                            open only when necessary.  Also, that man’s Yetzer
                                                            care that it is not constantly open, but rather it is
                                                            an opening (like a door opening) and he must take
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                                                                  ‘6.
                                                            In this chapter I will explain that man’s mouth is like
                                                            about other topics.
                                                            Heaven  accounts  it  as  a  merit.    I  will  also  speak
                                                            sense,  when  one  speaks  well  of  his  fellow  Jew,
                                                            prosecute against the speaker.  But in an opposite
                                                            is  aroused  Above  and  the  attending  angels  will
                                                            sin of Lashon Hara, the Attribute of Strict Justice
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                                                                  ‘5.
                                                            In this chapter I will explain that by virtue of the
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                                                                                                                                  Preface
                                                                                                                          םייח ץפח     Chafetz Chayim   Kuntres Chovat HaShemirah  and hasten the Geulah quickly in our lifetime, Amen.  before  Hashem Yitbarach  and  He  will  hasten  our  redemption,   so doing, our prayers and bless
                                                                                                                     הרימשה תבוח סרטנוק
                                                                                                                             החיתפ
                                                                   ד"סב
                                      םייח ץפח רפס                                                 ,דֵסְפֶה וֹבּ שֵׁי יַלוּא וֹבּ ןֵנוֹבְּתִהְל וֹקְסִעְבּ ךְָכּ לָכּ זירִָז וֹניֵאְדּ
                                  ונתב תמשנ יוליעל שדקומ
                                    ה"ע הדירפ תב לזמ                                               הרָוֹתּ וּנְיַהְדּ ,חַצֶנָל םָדָאָל םיִמָיַּקַּה םיִסָכְנ לַע זֵמּרְַמ אָלֶּא
                                                                                                   ברֵָעְתִמ םִא ,םָתוֹדוֹא םוֹי לָכְבּ ןֵנוֹבְּתִהְל ךְירִָצֶּשׁ ,תוְֹצִמוּ
                                 This sefer is dedicated
                              Le’Iluy Nishmat our daughter                                           .)הֶזָבּ רָמֲאַמַּה לָכּ םָשׁ יִתְּשׁרֵַפֶּשׁ ,ןוֹשָׁלַּה תרַיִמְשִׁבּ ןֵיַּע( םָבּ רֶצֵיַּה
                                 Mazal Bat Frieda  A"H
                                                                                                   םירִוּסֲאָה םירִוּבִּדּ ידְֵי לַעֶשׁ ,ןֵנוֹבְּתִהְל םָדָאָל וֹל שֵׁי דוֹע .ב
                            A Remembrance of Mazal
                                                                                                   ביִתְכִדּ וֹמְכּ ,םִיַתָפְשַּׂה לַע הָאְמֻט ךְיִשְׁמַמ אוּה ,רֵבּדְַמ אוּהֶשׁ
               A  woman’s  role  in  life  is  to  actively  partner  with  HaKadosh                      ."יִכֹנָא םִיַתָפְשׂ אֵמְט שׁיִא יִכּ" :)'ה 'ו הָיְעַשְׁי(
               Baruch Hu in sustaining His world by building a family in great
               modesty, joyfully nurturing all of its members and implanting                       :רַמָא אָיִּח 'ר :ערָֹצְמ תַשׁרָָפּ שׁוֹדָקַּה רַהֹּזַבּ אָתיִאְדּ אָהְו[
               within them lasting values of Torah and Chessed.  That constant
               effort  spans  an  entire  lifetime;  nothing  comes  without  her                  'וּכְו יוֹפְּיַשׁ לָכּ הֵּל ןָבֲאָתְּסִא אָשׁיִבּ אָנָשִּׁל קיִפַּאְדּ ןאַמ לָכּ
               investment of time and total involvement.  Her fulfillment comes                    .)וירָָביֵא לָכּ וֹל םיִאָמְטִנ ,ערָָה ןוֹשָׁל איִצוֹמֶּשׁ יִמ לָכּ(
               from encouraging her husband to grow and from the pleasure
               at watching her children mature with a sense of happiness and                       לַע הָאְמֻט וֹמְצַע לַע ךְיִשְׁמִה אוּהֶשׁ ןָויֵכִּמ ,ךְָכּ רַחַא וּנְיַה
               stability that will give them the ability to deal with all of life’s
               challenges.                                                                         לָכּ תֶא הֵבּרְַה וֹתוֹא אֵמַּטְל ארֲָחַא ארְָטִסַּה ַחֹכְבּ שֵׁי ,ויָתָפְשׂ
                                                                                                                        .]וֹשְׁפַנ ירְֵביֵא
               Mazal fulfilled this role and more during her 34 years.  She had
               a joy  for  life  that  anchored  her  family  and  touched  everyone               רָהְטִנ םָשְׁדּ .הָלֵבְנִבּ אָמְטִנֶּשׁ יִמִּמ רֵתוֹי הָעוּרְגּ וֹז הָאְמֻטְו
               because she sincerely loved and cared for them, and in turn they
               all loved her.  She was the ultimate giver, always pleasant and                     לָכְבּ רָהְטִנ וֹניֵאֶשׁ ,הֶזָבּ ןֵכּ ןיֵאֶשּׁ הַמ ,םִיַמ הֵוקְִמ ידְֵי לַע
               helpful, always accepting Hashem’s will without any expression
               of  personal  need  or  hardship,  with  charm  and  grace,  with                   ךְיִשְׁמִהֶשׁ ןָויֵכּ ,דוֹע אלְֹו .הָבוּשְׁתּ אלְֹבּ םָלוֹעָבֶּשׁ תוֹמיֵמ
               humor and a fierce dedication for the well being of her young                       הָאְמֻטַּה ַח ֹּכֶשׁ םרַָגּ ,טַעְמ וּלִּפֲא וֹשְׁפַנ לַע הָאְמֻט וֹמְצַעְבּ
               children.    With  absolute  faith  in  Hashem  she  never  worried
               about tomorrow; she was focused on today and on the good that                       אָמוֹיְבּ םרָָמֲאַמְכּ ,]וֹתָמְשִׁנ שׁרֶֹשׁ לַע[ הָלְעַמְלִמ וֹתוֹא אֵמַּטְי
               could be done today.  She knew better than most of us that life                     וֹתוֹא  ןיִאְמַּטְמ  -  הָטַּמְלִּמ  וֹמְצַע  אֵמַּטְמ  םָדָא  :).ט"ל  ףַדּ(
               is precious and she would strive not to waste a moment of it.
               She was a living Kiddush Hashem and an example of how we all                                .הֵבּרְַה וֹתוֹא ןיִאְמַּטְמ - טַעְמ ,הָלְעַמְלִמ
               should lead our lives.
                                                                                                   רֹצְנ' :הָלִּפְתַּה רַחַא ףֶכֵתּ םוֹי לָכְבּ 'הֵמ םיִשׁקְַבְמ וּנָא .ג
                                     th
               Mazal was born on the 27  of Nissan 5732
                                                     th
               Mazal’s neshamah returned home on the 27  of Elul 5766.                             וּנָאֶשְׁכּ ?וֹז הָשָׁקַּבּ תֶכֶיַּשׁ יַתָמיֵא לָבֲא .'וּכְו 'ערֵָמ יִנוֹשְׁל
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                                                                       of Shemirat HaLashon as intended for us by Hashem Yitbarach.
                                                                       This instruction gives purpose and fulfillment to practicing a life
                                                                                                                                                           4.  A reference to the First Man’s responsibility to preserve Gan Eden.
                                                            within Kuntres Zachor LeMiryam.
                                                            the  physical  practice  of  this  limud  is  contained
                                                                                                                                                           is described by the pasuk as (Beresheet 9:6) “He created man
                                                            The Chizuk, the encouragement which accompanies
                                                                                                                                                           by virtue of our fulfillment of Torah and mitzvot.  This (concept)
                                                                       Yetzer Hara.
                                                                                                                                                           by Gd Himself and He then gave us the power to achieve all this
                                                                       imparted by Shemirat HaLashon against the onslaught of one’s
                                                                                                                                                           2:3) “that Elokim created to do,” that the initial roots were created
                                                                       and  by  the  gentle,  patient  administering  of  the  immunization
                                                                                                                                                           commentary on Sefer Beresheet regarding the pasuk (Beresheet
                                                                                                                                                           plantings.    This  is  similar  to  what  the  Ramban  wrote  in  his
                                                                                                                                                           of our service (to Hashem) there still are created very beautiful
                                                            HaShemirah and Kuntres Kevod Shamayim.
                                                                                                                                                           Yet even now that we have been banished from there, by virtue
                                                            level  is  the  essential  purpose  of  Kuntres  Chovat
                                                                                                                                                           mitzvah a beautiful plant would have been planted in Gan Eden.
                                                            to  one’s  fellow  Jew  on  a  familial  and  communal
                                                            to  become  a  pleasant,  whole  person,  empathetic
                                                                                                                                                           have seen with our own eyes that by our performance of each
                                                            Character  building,  the  instruction  necessary
                                                                                                                                                           Eden) we would have fulfilled all of the mitzvot.   We would
                                                                                                                                                           us) there, just as it was given later at Mt Sinai, and there (in Gan
                                                                       nature and are a consequence of living Shemirat HaLashon;
                                                                                                                                                           banished from Gan Eden, the Torah would have been given (to
                                                                       endearing midot which will become a part of this person’s human
                                                                                                                                                           commandments.   Meaning, (namely) that if we had not been
                                                                       By demonstrating the character enhancements – the pleasant and
                                                                                                                                                           commandments, “to protect it,” these are the negative (passive)
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                                                                                                                                                           and to protect it.”  “to work it” these are the positive (proactive)
                                                            how it relates to our personal lives.
                                                                                                                                                           of our sages of blessed memory, (Beresheet 2:15) “to work it
                                                            this  subject  in  Hashem’s  Torah,  and  by  extension
                                                                                                                                                th
                                                                                                                                                           HaTorah,  10   perek  [in  the  Hagahah],  regarding  the  teaching
                                                            showing us over and over again the appearance of
                                                                                                                                                           (As was explained in my sefer, Shem Olam, Sha’ar HaChezkat
                                                            Shemirat  HaLashon  to  our  everyday  lives  by
                                                            Shemirat  HaLashon  –  Book  1,  in  order  to  relate
                                                                                                                                                           trivialized.
                                                            Book  2  was  written  about  thirty-five  years  after
                                                                                                                                                           to  protect  his  soul  will  not  endure  as  long  as  his  speech  is
                                                                       that Hashem Himself ascribes to this limud Torah;
                                                                                                                                                           with weeds and thistles, and all of the safeguards man developed
                                                                                                                                                           his speech, then he will find that his “vineyard” is overgrown
                                                                       By showing him how to relate to these laws and the importance
                                                                                                                                                           one must protect it and guard it very well.  But if man trivializes
                                                                                                                                                           vineyard in Gan Eden as is written in our holy writings.  Thus
                                                            work without the other.
                                                                                                                                                           by virtue of his Torah and good deeds is capable of planting a
                                                            components  of  Shemirat  HaLashon,  one  cannot
                                                                                                                                                           The explanation (of this parable) is as follows:  every single Jew,
                                                            the mussar and the halacha are necessary integral
                                                            it  is  the  “how  to”  of  Shemirat  HaLashon.    Both
                                                                                                                                                           fence was breached.
                                                            Torah of forbidden foods or the Torah of Shabbat;
                                                                                                                                                           overgrown  with  weeds  and  thistles  and  a  (surrounding)  stone
                                                            forbidden to us by the Torah, no different than the
                                                                                                                                                           and the vineyard of an uncaring person and behold they were
                                                            constitutes  language  and  communication  that  is
                                                                                                                                                           this in) Mishle (24:30-31) “I passed by the field of a lazy man
                                                            Sefer Chafetz Chayim is the structured law of what
                                                                                                                                                           beautiful fruit that he hoped for.  (Shelomo HaMelech expresses
                                                                       application;
                                                                       carefully illustrating those laws with practical examples of their
                                                                                                                                    Introduction
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                                                                                                                                              Kuntres Chovat HaShemirah
                                                                                                                                       Chafetz Chayim
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