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Feedback That Works FAST
Fair:
“Sometimes I feel upset when you___.”
“I understand that you are upset too.” “Usually I feel happy with you, but right now I feel like you aren’t listening to me.”
No Apologizes:
“It’s hard for me to disagree with you.”
“I don’t mean to offend you.”
“I don’t want this to harm our friendship.”
Stick To Your Values:
“It’s important to me to be on time.”
“Honesty is important to me.”
“I value being able to talk to you.”
Truthful:
“Even though it’s hard for me to talk about, I want to
be honest.”
“This is honestly how I feel.”