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It all starts with that `thing’ between the two of you, thud as time goes by.
with stars in your shiny eyes and butterflies in your Long-term relationships can lose their zest and
tummy. Then the first curious kiss, followed by sparkle, leaving the couple feeling lonely, lost and
holding hands. Date nights, movies, restaurants and asking yourself – is it possible to reignite the flame?
picnics follow. Romantic weekends away listening to This downward spiral can lead to your dreams being
the wave’s crash gently on the golden sand, cocktails smashed and broken.
on the rocks and fresh seafood served on the beach. The good news is you can minimise the chances of
Watching soothing sunsets, magnificent moon rises this happening, even through some tough and stale
and dancing the night away. Messages on the fridge, moments. The reality show of your life has become
in the lunchbox or underwear drawer saying `I will boring and mundane. Work, work, work, kids, kids,
love you forever, you are my shining star’. Working kids and chores, chores, chores with perhaps a dash
away tirelessly together to make your wedding that of financial stress. Beware of becoming `co-parents’
perfect dream occasion, still flirting, laughing and or roommates, no matter how old you are, fun and
catching each other’s eyes across the crowded room. pleasure are essential to living a long and happy life.
Sound familiar? Great, you are off to the right start. And did I add being the lover part?
However, beware of the sex recession. The slippery “How do I do this?” you might ponder.
satin sheets could see you falling out of bed with a There is no such thing as `there is not enough time’.

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