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Keeping Close Connections You Can Trust - Keeping in close
                              contact with the family and friends that you can trust will keep
                              you the manipulator’s mind control efforts on you down to a

                              minimum. The family and friends you can trust will give you the
                              support that you need and strengthen your belief in yourself so
                              the manipulator has no room to plant their seeds of doubt or
                              shake your confidence.



                              Talk to Your Friends and Family - Another reason to never

                              allow the manipulator to sway you into disconnecting from the
                              ones you love and trust is that you can always trust them to have
                              your best interest at heart. The ones who love you (in a non-
                              manipulative way) will always be looking out for your safety. If
                              you’re ever unsure about whether you’re being subjected to

                              manipulation (even though you might have your suspicions), talk
                              to them about what’s going on and see how they react. Their
                              immediate response - if it is shock and anger - should serve the

                              wake-up call you to need that something may not be quite right.



                              Choosing Not to Tolerate Their Moods - Manipulators in
                              relationships often sulk or resort to temper tantrums to get things
                              done their way. If you enable them, the only one this kind of
                              behavior is taking an emotional toll on is you. Choose not to
                              tolerate it by walking away from the situation whenever they

                              resort to this kind of behavior. Explain why you’re not going to
                              put up with this and if they refuse to change their ways, it might
                              be time to question if there’s any reason to hold onto this

                              relationship for much longer.


                              Ignore Them - This is the best practical advice you could apply

                              on yourself. Ignore them because they’re not worth wasting your
                              time, effort and emotions on. When they try to give you “advice”
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