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ignore them. When they try to tell you what to do, ignore them
                              and go ahead and do what you wanted to anyway. Manipulators

                              can never be trusted, and they’ll always try and get you to do
                              their dirty work for them. When you try to hold them
                              accountable, they’ll deny all responsibility. They flip flop, go
                              back and forth and change their minds as often as they change
                              their clothes. Ignore them and ignore everything they’re saying,

                              that’s the best thing you could do.



                              Don’t Try to Correct Them - You’re only sinking deeper into
                              their trap when you do. Remember that they’re trying to confuse
                              you enough so you can’t see what they’re up to when you’re an
                              emotional wreck, and every time you try to “fix” the situation,

                              you’re making it too easy for them to twist you around their little
                              finger. They often set these little traps to see how you respond so
                              they can figure out your triggers and use them to their advantage.
                              Don’t engage, don’t respond and don’t try and correct them. It’s

                              a game you can never win.



                              Don’t Doubt Yourself - That’s exactly what the manipulator
                              wants you to do. Why is why this is exactly what you shouldn’t
                              do. You know yourself better than anyone else ever could, and
                              you shouldn’t have to rely on anyone’s validation to let you

                              know that you’re good enough just the way you are. What
                              separates the successful individuals from everyone else is the
                              fact that they don’t base their self-worth on someone else’s
                              opinions. They rely on their own judgment and if they make

                              mistakes along the way, that’s okay. They learn from it and get
                              back up again. Believing in yourself can be one of your strongest
                              defenses against a manipulator’s attack.



                              Quit Trying So Hard to Fit in With the Wrong Crowd - If you
                              have to work too hard to fit in with a group of people, they are

                              not the right group for you. Manipulators are charming and
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