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The Microexpressions - Strategy number 3 focuses on the more
                              obvious facial expressions that take place during the

                              communication process, but there’s another aspect to what
                              psychologists refer to as display rules which play a very vital
                              role when it comes to letting others know just how you feel.
                              Perhaps even what you’re thinking. These very tiny facial
                              movements are known as microexpressions, and they tend to

                              concentrate on the areas specifically around the mouth and the
                              eyes. These microexpressions, along with the rest of your facial
                              expressions, can completely contradict what you’re saying and

                              anyone who is skilled at reading nonverbal cues will be able to
                              pick up on this immediately. A person may be under the
                              impression they’re doing a good job of concealing the fear that
                              they have when they’re trying to impress the person they’re
                              talking to, but the ever so slight pullback of the muscles around

                              the mouth area will give away just how anxious they feel on the
                              inside. The dangerous thing about microexpressions is that they
                              don’t just happen when a person is feeling nervous or anxious.

                              They also take place when someone is lying. Hiding a little white
                              lie is not so easy when your little facial muscles are giving you
                              away.



                              Raising Eyebrows - There are only three main reasons (and
                              emotions) that would make someone raise their eyebrows. They
                              either feel surprised, afraid or worried. The next time you’re in a

                              relaxed and casual conversation with a friend, try raising your
                              eyebrows and see if it’s easy to do. You might come off looking
                              strange at best. When someone is talking to you and the
                              conversation doesn’t involve a topic that would either cause fear,

                              surprise or worry yet they have their eyebrows raised, keep your
                              antennas up because something else could be going on beneath
                              the surface.
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