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you speak to them is if they were either concerned about what
                              you thought of them, or if they are worried you might be

                              doubting their ability to keep up with your instructions
                              (employees sometimes do this when the boss is giving off a
                              string of instructions and they’re trying to impress them by
                              showing that they can keep up with everything that’s being said).



                              Tightly Clenched Jaw - The only time someone’s jaw would be
                              tightly clenched during a conversation is if they were feeling

                              stressed. If you notice that the words they tell you might make it
                              sound like they’re okay with an idea but their jaws are clenched
                              while they’re saying it, that’s the signal you need that tells you
                              they’re not as okay with the idea as they’re leading you to

                              believe.



                              The Feet - Another part of your body which could get you into
                              trouble by sending mixed messages. When you tap your toes,
                              someone might get the impression that you’re either feeling
                              anxious or you’re in a hurry to bring the conversation to a close.

                              Tapping your toes when you’re trying to get the attention of
                              another is a way of getting them to notice you without
                              interrupting a conversation that they might be having. Toe
                              tapping is a way of signaling when you’re feeling pressed for

                              time without having to spell it out directly because you don’t
                              want to come off sounding rude. There’s a reason people tap
                              their toes, but it doesn’t necessarily mean it’s the best form of
                              communication, especially since either way you’re going to be

                              perceived as being rude when you continuously tap, tap, tap at
                              someone else. Imagine how it would feel to have someone
                              tapping their toes at you.
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