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something deeper, politely say no. Rope bondage is often an intense experience, and
you should be sure that any potential partner will be able to experience it in a safe and
respectful way—and that he or she will have fun!

If you’re a rope bunny looking for a top, the same goes—perhaps more so. Be incredibly
thorough when meeting with a potential dominant, and don’t go a step further than talking
until you’re absolutely sure that you can trust that person. Outline your hard boundaries,
your desires, your experience, and your health, and ask about your partner’s. Try to
ascertain what type of person he or she is, and if, even for a second, that person makes
you feel uncomfortable, politely say no and end the meeting. Ensure that you meet any
potential top in a public place the first time, and be sure that a friend knows where you are.
Remember that this person will be in total control of your health and well-being, and don’t
be afraid to be picky. The right top is always worth the wait!

Note: Rope bunny is the term used in the community for a person who loves to be hogtied,
bound, swung, and displayed, regardless of their gender(s). A rope bunny can be male,
female, male-presenting, female-presenting, agendered, or anything in between. Rope
bunnies are not necessarily submissives or bottoms; they can be otherwise dominant
people who just love to be restrained. We have been using the term rope bunny in this
book, but if you’re uncomfortable with the term, feel free to create your own!

Newbies vs. Experienced Partners

If you’re reading this book, I’m going to assume that you’re relatively new to the world of
rope bondage (or that you’re just a big fan—high five!). However, you might be exploring
rope bondage with someone who is just as inexperienced as you, or you might have
someone in your life who has been in the scene for a long time. This makes a huge impact
on how your first steps into bondage will go—and, of course, how quickly you can get down
to the really kinky stuff! If your partner is also new to bondage—say, if you’re a couple

ƒ Sometimes rolling around on a big couch with a few bundles of rope and your lover can be
the best way to spend a Saturday afternoon.
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