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sexual health; don’t let others do it for you. You should be upfront about your sexual
                                             health, and so should your partner. Don’t trust a person who brushes off the question or
                                             answers only with “Trust me. I don’t have chlamydia.” If someone isn’t transparent about
                                             their past in any way, don’t play with them. You should also consider that the nature of
                                             sexually transmitted infections is that a person (including you) may not even know that he
                                             or she has one, so regular checks should be a part of your social calendar if you’re planning
                                             to have a diverse and exciting sexual life. And always remember: Play safe!




                                             You and Your Partner Are Responsible for Safety


                                             Not to sound like a broken record, but this is worth going over again—and what kind of
                                             teacher would I be if I didn’t drill the important stuff into your head?

                                             During any bondage session, whether it involves a few simple ties with a silk work tie
                                             or an elaborate suspension with three bunnies encased in red rope, every play partner
                                             is responsible for safety. First, his or her own, and then the partner’s (or partners’). The
                                             bondage community is built on honesty, integrity, and trust, and you should consider these
                                             traits to be more important than anything else in your journey through rope bondage.
                                             Though you might think that, as a bottom, you can get away with slipping a few pills to
                                             enhance your experience, you will put the safety of any other bunnies in jeopardy if your
                                             body has a bad reaction and the rigger has to turn his attention to you at an inopportune
                                             moment. As a rigger, you quite literally have the safety of your partner in your hands at all
                                             times, and if you at any point feel that you’re not up to the task of dealing with that, end
                                             the scene right then and there. There’s no shame in getting to the cuddling and caressing
                                             portion of the evening a little quicker than you’d imagined—and there’s always next time!















                                                         No matter how hot and heavy the action gets, safety should be at the forefront of your mind. „

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