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She treats me like a child. I don’t want to be treated like a child. I want to be treated like an equal adult.
They are constantly calling out. I want them to stop calling out. I want them to take their turn to speak.
She explodes whenever things I want her to stop exploding when I want her to develop the skills to regulate
don’t go her way. things don’t go her way. her emotions when she is disappointed.
I want him to start increasing his
I want him to stop running off when
He’s got no resilience. resilience so he can tolerate challenge
a piece of work is challenging.
for longer amounts of time.
He flies off the handle I want him to stop hitting out when I want him to get better at frustration
control so he can tolerate the unpleasant
whenever his team are losing. his team are losing.
feeling of losing.
He’s never gets in at the time I want him to stop staying out until I want him to start getting back at the
we agreed. the early hours. time we agreed.
I want her to start noticing the good
She is such a nag. I want her to stop nagging me. stuff I do. I want her to let me know
what she would like in positive ways.
His room is a bombsite. I want him to stop chucking his I want him to start putting his clothes
clothes on the floor. straight in the wash basket.
