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2. Learning about different sorts



















                                                                                                                                                                                           of stress











































                             1.At the end of each day, think of times you had an




















                                                  unpleasant feeling.































                             2.Decide: was this growth stress, tolerable stress or





















                                                  dangerous toxic stress?




































































































































                                              GROWTH STRESS                                                                                                                                                                                                   TOLERABLE STRESS                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  TOXIC STRESS















                  ▪E.g. an interview; an exam; starting a                                                                                                                                                                                    ▪E.g. someone calling you a name; your                                                                                                                                                                                     ▪E.g. seeing ongoing violence; ongoing






                    new club; meeting new people; moving                                                                                                                                                                                       mum and dad having an argument;                                                                                                                                                                                            abuse, bullying or discrimination;







                    to a new area; a challenging project.                                                                                                                                                                                      Willow getting angry with you; doing                                                                                                                                                                                       ongoing poverty-related stress.






                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               badly in a test; serious illness; a teacher







                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               being angry; a car crash.










                  ▪Leads to resilience, confidence &                                                                                                                                                                                         ▪Leads to adaptation &                                                                                                                                                                                                     ▪Leads to long-term mental &






                    good coping skills.                                                                                                                                                                                                                   recovery.                                                                                                                                                                                                       physical health issues & Executive







                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Function Skill difficulties.
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