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                   To render professional justice to his profession he draws a mental picture about your personality having read all
                   the details from your P.I.Q. and I.Q. regarding your family background, schooling, medium of language,
                   failures, achievements, hobbies, interest, participation, awareness, motivation level, curiosity and finally how
                   serious you are, for the job you are pursuing. He has to differentiate between the job seekers and doers.

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                      Before the interview commences, he draws a mental picture about your personality and forms an
                   expectation level basing on above details. This expectation level he wants you to reach, if you full fill,
                   then he registers you at your acceptable level.
                      How you will register in your expectable level is given below—Sometimes I.O. himself, may
                   and may not remember the order of the questions. please follow my advices and practice as I say, you
                   will never get fail in the SSB. Now I am coming to the missing questions pertaining the details about
                   siblings :—
                      For the candidates while saying sir; give a pause and gradually land on the word ‘Sir’ this will spell
                   an emotional tone and will make further conversation friendly and confident. Answer like this—
                      Candidate :—Sir, I have one elder brother who is a computer Engineer in BHEL, posted in
                   Bombay and my younger sister is a student of 10th Class, studying in Queens Convent College, Delhi.
                      Interpretation—What happens when you miss the sequence or it is checked or pointed out by the
                   I.O. under this circumstance three situation arises :—



                                          1                 2                   3
                                       You do not      When you have       When you have
                                      want to spell     poor merit than      stranged
                                       about your          them.           relations or they
                                     siblings because                       are notorious
                                      father is ‘one’
                                     and mothers are
                                         ‘two’

                      Answer for Point No. 1—Advises received by the SSB aspirant are like this—Be honest, positive
                   and natural, is being interpreted by me as below—Whatever the condition is; be ready to face it. It
                   happens with most of the families. Try to maintain the confidence and practice to maintain
                   the confidence honestly more for the darker side of your life and say like this :—
                      Candidate—Sir, since my childhood I noticed my step-mother nursing my mother who used to
                   remain on the bed. Sir later on, I came to know that my first mother became unable to walk due to
                   severe illness. My father did not have any alternative except to marry my step-mother as my elder
                   brother was also a kid. Sir I am proud to say that we have never found any difference between the
                   mothers and even the dedication of father is beyond our expectation.
                   Answer for Point No. 2
                      Candidate :—When you have poor merit than them :—Sir, my brother had a good merit in his
                   academics, my sister drew motivation and maintained that. It did not motivate me and I lost my
                   percentage in high school. The poor marks in my high school degraded me in my friend circles,
                   relatives and neighbours. In intermediate I worked hard, took tips from my brother and seniors and
                   secured 78% from Delhi Board.
                      Answer for Point No. 3 : When you have stranged relations or they are notorious—
                      Candidate :—Patna is a political place and a few students are reported to be notorious. My elder
                   brother first supported the sitting president of the Patna university and next year contested and lost. Sir,
                   during supporting and contesting he became notorious, that too, he stopped listening the father-mother
                   both and Sir, I and others did not stand any where. Sir, Now he has changed himself & his decisions
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