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Five Signatures You Must Avoid
too protective about him- thinks he is the one who more space in their mind.
self. Such writers have a has less of everything - They fail to let go of F
problem making friends looks, money, talent or something that was good O
because they do not open success - than others. They or bad in the past. Recent- R
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up and are always scared are the people whose self- ly, I met a businessman E
of getting hurt. They sus- respect is always trampled who most of the time kept
pect the motives of people by the crowd. They be- talking about how bad his R
around them, which re- come an easy target be- last garment business was Y
sults in their social isola- cause they do not protest. and how it failed “despite D
tion. Consequently, they They lack the courage to his efforts”. I tried to en- E
fail to become a part of the speak their mind. After gage him into a conversa-
life around them. Usually, several bruises, they begin tion on his current busi- C
people who are extremely to avoid social gatherings. ness, but after a minute E
sensitive have such signa- In many cases, such peo- or two, he would again P
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tures. The circle is used by ple develop psychologi- go back to the old one. I I
the writer as a protective cal problems. If you have have a question for you.
robe to avoid pain. If you such a signature, enlarge it What do you think the O
have such a circle around a bit. But not too much. businessman would have N
your signature, get rid of been doing while running L
it. I did that. The results (4) TRACE-BACK that garment business? My I
will surprise you. SIGNATURE guess is he would have
A lot of people I met have spent more time talking E
(3) VERY SMALL this signature. From the about his previous busi- S
SIGNATURE last stroke, they go back- ness. If you have a similar
A very small signature ward - from left to right signature, draw an under-
reflects lack of confidence - and draw the underline line from left to the right.
to pull off day-to-day without lifting the pen. Note: There are many
tasks. If it co-exists with This is called trace-back other types of trace-back
other strokes showing low signature. Such writers and underline signatures.
self-esteem, such as low never come out of their
t-bar and small personal past and most of the time,
pronoun, it becomes an they run in reverse gear. (5) SCRIBBLED
inexhaustible source of They think too much SIGNATURE
diffidence. Whenever such about past matters and that This is one of the most
a writer is in a group, he the days gone-by occupy common signatures. Such
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