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Women Role Models 2014




                                                                                               By Lizzy Marples

                                                                               Objectifying a woman is making her an object
                                                                               of sexual desire instead of a human being with
                                                                               feelings. The second wave of feminism arose in
                                                                               the 60’s and women finally started to emerge from
                                                                               the social roles that men had placed on them.
                                                                               These social norms/roles included the ideology
                                                                               that woman could only be housewives and nothing
                                                                               more.  This second feminist movement was great
                                                                               progress for empowering women. However, media
                                                                               was growing right alongside the movement and
                                                                               took this empowerment and made it into some-
                                                                               thing exactly the opposite of empowering: Notice
                                                                               that the majority of the products women became
                                                                               objectified on were products that men use such
                                                                               as; beer, cigars, and cologne. When large cor-
                                                                               porations realized that sex sells, you start to see
                                                                               women becoming only a sum of their body parts in
                                                                               all type of media.
                                                                               Keeping that in mind, imagine how seeing these
                                                                               “perfect” women in advertisements, and how they
                                                                               are portrayed as less than men, could affect the
                                                                               way young women value themselves and their
                                                                               morals. Being a young women growing up in
                                                                               this social media craved generation, I have been
                                                                               affected first hand. Social media has become
                                                                               a filter for people’s lives, to show only what the
                                                                               majority wants to see. When I see Kylie Jenners
                                                                               tweet about getting a brand new Range Rover
                                                                               and then scroll through her Instagram only to see
                                                                               how happy she looks I begin to think that one must
                                                                               have what she has in order to be happy. Instead
                                                                               of looking up to women like Michelle Obama, who
                                                                               is a graduate of Princeton and devotes her life to
                                                                               helping other people. Teens look up to Miley Cyrus
                                                                               who is all over the media and looks like she’s hav-
                                                                               ing the time of her life.
                                                                               Since finishing my project I have redefined my role
                                                                               models and encourage other young women to do
                                                                               the same. There are so many empowering women
                                                                               out there who are happy and contributing to the
                                                                               world in positive ways. My top four are:
                                                                               Jennifer Lawrence - Actress who began her
                                                                               career in Winter's Bone. The media called her
                                                                               fat and she was told to lose weight for one of her
                                                                               roles, but she refused because she didn’t want to
                                                                               conform to the typical super skinny actress role
                                                                               JK Rowling - British Author who basically created
                                                                               a whole empire off her Harry Potter series

                                                                               Sheryl Sandburg - Chief Operating Officer of
                                                                               Facebook
                                                                               Cindy Sherman - Photographer/Artist/Model/
                                                                               Director whose art portrays women living in this
                                                                               society
     A couple weeks ago I began a project exploring the second wave of femi-  Shailene Woodley - Starring in the upcoming film
     nism and the affect the movement had on society. At the beginning of this   A Fault in Our Stars, Shailene was asked if she was feminist and said no,
     project my teacher asked me what women I looked up to. I stared blankly   which caused lots of controversy. But instead of fighting the media she
     back at him, not sure what women I thought were my role models. This   clarified saying “For me the big thing in life is about sisterhood,” she says.
     raised a whole set of questions in my mind because It’s not that I don’t look   “Bringing sisters together and supporting one another…What I found so
     up to people, I just realized in that moment that I am probably not looking up   funny and so sad about that article is that I talked about that the entire
     to the right ones. I found myself aspiring to be certain people for their looks   time. Nothing is going to change in this world until women start loving other
     and not their accomplishments.                           women. I’m so lucky. I have the best sisters in my life. The best.”
     Have you ever noticed the way ads use bodies to sell their products, por-
     traying women as the weaker ones, making them the sum of their bodies?
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