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Precious moments are created when you and your partner are totally focused on each other, loving one another in the moment with open hearts, experiencing the joy of
the love that you share. When both hearts are open in this way, there is a connection of love between you that forges a wonderful bond. Precious moments are not just
for the bedroom. It doesn’t matter what you’re doing, it’s the level of attention you demonstrate to what you are experiencing that defines it as a precious moment.

When you don't share enough real moments with one another, you starve the soul of the relationship. You can spend every minute in each other's presence,
but unless you are consciously experiencing some precious moments, you won't ever truly be together.

Precious moments teach you to pay attention with your heart, to start being right here, right now, IN THE MOMENT. It is those real moments that will
ultimately give depth and meaning to your relationship, and keep you feeling eternally in love.

The Loving Look

He sleeps next to you, has sex with you, eats with you, sometimes looks at you but doesn't
really look into you. He sees your face, but doesn't know how you’re feeling. He sees your
body, but doesn't see your spirit. . . . When your partner looks at you with a loving look, you
will feel more completely loved than if he gave you any gift, more beautiful any words he
could say . . .

Loving Your Partner with Words

The words you use will create either a receptive or a resistant response. The right words can
talk to her body until it opens for you like a flower. The right words can make her feel swollen
with desire, smile with delight and cry with happiness. You have the power to make her feel
so safe, so understood, that all her old fears and mistrust melt away. You have the power to
make her feel so cherished, so beautiful, that never again will she feel jealous or insecure. , . . Why wouldn’t you want to find those words?
The Loving Embrace

A simple embrace can be more intimate than the most passionate sex, and more meaningful than the most honest conversation. Whenever
you feel disconnected from the love you share with your partner, ask your partner to hold you. There is a world of a difference between
an embrace and a hug. A hug can be something you share with friends, that “hello, it’s been a while type hug” whereas a loving embrace is
so much more. With a loving embrace, you can absorb all your partners worries and fears, and make them feel comforted and safe.
Something magical can happen to you when you are held in your lover's arms. You forget about the things that you thought mattered, and
remember the things that really do matter. You get out of your head and back into your heart. . . .
The Loving Touch

All too often, we can be clumsy and invasive with our touch. A good lover trains to speak the language of love with grace and Page390
eloquence. Like any language, the language of touch must be learned, practiced, and mastered if you are to become fluent in it.