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THE SOLUTION TO SECRET SORROWS

                 will be reminded. But the most miserable will shun it,
                 those who will roast in the Greatest Fire. And then neither
                 die nor live in it. He who has purified himself will have
                 success. (Surat al-A'la: 9-14)


                 Behavioral Defects
                 The reactions of those who cannot completely rescue them-
            selves when invited to sincerity, even though they say they believe,
            make themselves evident to a large extent in defects of the voice,
            manner of speaking and expression. As we have mentioned, they
            may place great importance on their image in the eyes of others,
            though they know very well that what is most important is to earn
            the approval of Allah. Being the target of criticism and having their
            errors detected are among the things that damage this image the
            most. Because of this, when they find themselves in circles where
            this occurs, they display different voices, speech and expressions
            that are inappropriate to the morality of the faithful. To list these re-
            actions when their insincerity is discovered:


                 Reactions apparent in the voice
                 No doubt, people's voices are one of the most important means
            by which they reflect their emotions and thoughts to the outside
            world. Most of the time, whether they want to or not, they make
            their joy, pleasure, affection, interest, fears and concerns—or their
            tranquility and comfort—apparent through their tone of voice.
                 Faced with a warning about his Afterlife, a person who lives the
            morality of the Qur'an tries to understand and implement what he is
            told with pleasure and eagerness. That pleasure can be easily recog-
            nized in his voice. But in the case of an insincere person, no matter
            how much he tries to hide the tension he feels because his insincer-

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