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setting boundaries or saying no to the
things we were afraid to say no to.

We may sabotage our success because

we are afraid of the responsibilities that
come along with it. We may sabotage
our relationships because we are afraid

of intimacy or getting too close to
another. We can only be as intimate

with another as we are with ourselves.
So, if someone begins to penetrate or
access parts of us that we have yet to

connect with, the saboteur will often
step in. The most important question

to ask ourselves when it comes to
secondary gain is, ’What part of me is
benefiting by sabotaging?’

The third expression of the saboteur is

based in our relationship with truth.
Very often, there are certain truths that
our ego wants to avoid because they are

inconvenient, painful, or uncomfortable.
While we are always being divinely

guided through life, we also have free
will. Many people debate whether there
is a divine plan or free will, but what if

there is both? What if the divine plan is
the path that our soul has chosen for this

lifetime, and free will is the choice as to
how we choose to experience it?

Our soul is constantly guiding us towards
our highest potential, a path that often

includes twists and turns that challenges
the ego’s focus on instant gratification,
security, and attachment. As the old

saying goes, “Spiritual growth is the ego’s
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