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OneFamily

                                  THE POWER








                                  OF TOGETHER MICHAL BELZBERG


              hen  you hear  about  a terror   to care for the victims of terror, and   No More Hugs
              attack, you read the horrifying   to provide them with emotional and
     W details  and the  heartbreaking      financial support.                     Last year for example, Iris Yifrach spoke
      stories of the families left behind, your                                    about her son, Eyal, who was murdered
      heart goes out to their children, their   “We  strive  to rehabilitate,  reintegrate   five years ago: “For four years you have
      parents, their spouse and their brothers   and rebuild the lives of thousands of   been gone and the memories burn inside my
      and sisters.                          Israelis affected by terror, by providing   heart. When you entered the house, it was
                                            them with a comprehensive blend        like the sun coming out… remember how
      But you can never fully fathom the    of financial assistance, therapeutic   your little sisters used to hang on to your
      devastation it causes to families who lose   programs, workshops and retreats as well   big backpack? And I was in the corner of
      loved ones or are injured in attacks. Their   as legal aid, regardless of race or religion.   the  kitchen  waiting  patiently  for my  turn.
      lives are plunged into chaos and despair.   Over the last 18 years we have provided   Waiting for your warmth, your greatness.
                                            more  than $55  million  in  assistance  to
      This  is  where the  Jerusalem-based   more than 4,000 victims of terrorism   In the great light you brought with you, you
      OneFamily steps in.                   and war, and their families.”          would say ‘Mommy I’m home, how are you?’
                                                                                   And  in  the  precious  moments during  candle
      It began almost 18 years ago, says    Before Israel’s 71st Independence Day   lighting on Shabbat, you would come out
      Chantal Belzberg, CEO of OneFamily.   celebrations this year, the nation will   of your room dressed in white, and I was
      “We were about to celebrate our       mark  Remembrance Day  for  Israel’s   already imagining your father and I walking
      daughter Michal’s Bat Mitzvah when    fallen. While the entire country comes   down the aisle on the happiest day of your
      there was a suicide bomb attack at the   to a standstill and honors them once   life…”
      Sbarro Pizza Restaurant. 15 people    a  year,  OneFamily  remembers  these
      were murdered and 85 injured. There   people all year round.                 Or Tziona Netanel, wife of Cpt. Yonatan
      and  then, Michal  decided  to  cancel  her                                  Netanel, who  spoke  of  life without her
      celebrations and asked family and guests   On Tuesday night, May 7 at 8pm, more   husband: “We were already three – father,
      to donate to the wounded.”            than 500 victims of terror, counsellors   mother, and Ma’ayan. Yoni went to war and
                                            and friends will gather in the garden of the   promised we would celebrate our wedding
      As the wave of suicide bomb attacks   OneFamily Center in Jerusalem to mark   anniversary together and travel far away.
      continued to ravage the country,      the solemn event, as one big family. The   Yoni traveled far away. Too far. Without me.
      Belzberg (and her husband Marc),      annual occasion provides a platform for   With one hand I held onto Ma’ayan. A soft
      realized there was an immense need    victims to share their personal stories of loss.  baby  with beautiful  eyes  like  her father’s.
                                                                                   And with my other hand, I hugged those who
                                                                                   came to comfort me. What comfort? I wanted
                                                                                   Yoni himself to come and hug me…”
                                                                                   And Noa Bukris, who so misses her sister
                                                                                   Hadar: “Sunday November 22, 2015. I had
                                                                                   an alert on my cellphone telling me there was
                                                                                   a stabbing at the Gush Etzion junction. I was
                                                                                   angry. I said to myself, enough! I don’t have
                                                                                   the strength to hear about these attacks every
                                                                                   day and so I put the phone away. But this
                                                                                   time it wasn’t just an alert. It was my sister.
                                                                                   Hadar was dead. I felt like my heart had
                                                                                   exploded. Without a hospital, without a final
                                                                                   word. Without one last hug…”

       Last year’s Yom HaZikaron ceremony at OneFamily (Meir Pawlowski)
                                                                                   Now, OneFamily provides those hugs.
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