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              The next step requires a pen and paper and   The report person will be someone you   two things per day or week. Don’t let setbacks
            writing down your goal. Then, consider where   consider an accountability partner. A close   or slow progress stop you. So many lawyers
            you want to be in January 2021 and start to   friend or colleague who will hold you   want balance in their life and EPIC goals
            carve out an articulated goal. Goals have to   accountable for what you say you will do for   relentlessly executed will get you there. Lean
            have a few components, I challenge you to   each small step. Someone you can call on when   on your accountability partner when you are
            create an EPIC goal.               you need encouragement. I am a firm believer in   waning and need some encouragement. Using
            •  Explicit – specific, stated clearly with   sharing my goals with many people. This helps   the techniques here you can start to see waves
              definition, no room for doubt    you to exercise stating your goal over and over.   of change in your ability to crush your goals.
            •  Planned – has a timeline, steps, and specific   Repeating and sharing your goals also sets you   Wondering if your goal is EPIC? Feel free
              goal dates                       up to be responsible to yourself to achieve what   to reach out to me and share your goal with
            •  Illustrated – physically written down and   you told so many people you would achieve. It   me and I’ll help you redesign your goal, if
              detailed — pictures could help too!  becomes a conversation piece when you bump   necessary,  to  make  2020  and  EPIC  year  for
            •  Calculated – intentional and done with   into that person again. This keeps your goals in   you! Happy Goal Setting New Year!
              awareness of certain deadlines and urgency  the front of your mind. This is motivating!
              Obviously, you should set more than one
            goal each year. Some goals are small such as   How EPIC goals help you          Natalie is a lawyer, success coach,
            “remember or learn at least two new people’s   Setting goals can help to make you feel more in   and practicing attorney. As a coach
            names each week.” Other goals are big goals,   control and be able to keep anxious thoughts   she focuses on whole life happiness
            “Get a job in the insurance legal industry   and actions at bay. Depression and anxiety are   for lawyers, she takes a no-BS
            earning at least $75,000/year.” If you set a lot of   complex  issues.  Obviously,  setting  goals  will   approach to breaking through major
            small goals, you can work the EPIC framework   not immediately cure these issues. Setting goals   barriers and achieving massive life-changing
            really quickly. A big goal will take longer to   that can actually be achieved and having the   success for new and overwhelmed attorneys. She
            work through and might change over time   steps in place to ensure you achieve them help   has been a CMBA member since 2019. She can
            since the EPIC framework will cause you to   to avoid depressed thoughts or overwhelmed   be reached at (216) 337-7738 or natalieLthomas@
            keep recalculating, and revising your plans.   thoughts that lead to anxiety.   yahoo.com. Follow her @the360lawyer on Twitter
                                                 Many  attorneys  set  goals  around work-  or via Facbook at bit.ly/the360lawyer.
            Crushing your goals                life balance. Work-life balance is not easy for
            Once you have an EPIC goal in mind, write   anyone, but it is attainable! Almost no one in
            it down  and then the magic begins. To be   the world will ever have an exact 50/50 split of
            someone who achieves their goals, and not   their work and home life. This is not the goal of
            another resolution failure statistic, you have   work-life balance. If you want balance you have
            to break your goals down into smaller steps.   to work to be present where you are. When you
            Each EPIC goal can be made up of smaller   are at work, you are mentally working on work
            goals to be reached. If your goal is to get   and dedicated to that. When you are at home,
            your first legal job as a city prosecutor, you   you are present with your family, friends, pets,
            can have smaller goals such as attending at   etc and you are not thinking about work. This
            least three bar association meetings before   is balance. Setting goals will help you to feel
            April 2020, or connect with at least two new   comfortable about getting work done at work,
            attorneys each week via LinkedIn. Breaking   and being mentally free when you are outside
            your large goals into smaller goals will create   of work. For example, you may set a goal that
            a manageable amount of work to do in each   you will spend at least two hours at home each
            small step. Smaller action steps for each goal   day without looking at your work email is an
            increase the likelihood of your success as you   EPIC goal. This goal can increase your ability
            will be able to see progress and feel in control.   to be present at home during those two hours.
            This helps to manage the anxiety that creeps in   This can also help you feel more motivated
            when looking at “daunting” big goals. This also   to work while at work as you will want to get   OVER 25 YEARS OF
            helps you to avoid ethical issues because you   things finished and accomplished knowing
            will be intentional in your actions and paying   you have a planned break later in the day.   PERSONAL INJURY,
            attention to each step.                                                   MEDICAL MALPRACTICE,
              Each goal should have a small chart that   Final steps to achieving your goals  AND AUTO / TRUCKING
            looks something like this:         The last part of setting and achieving your goals   CASES
                                               is to relentlessly execute. You are in control
                    Action            Report   of how effectively you execute your goals.
              Goal          Deadline
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                                               working until your goals are reached. If you   ROBENALTLAW.COM
                                               feel overwhelmed start breaking it down into
                                               small steps and commit to doing just one or

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