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Telling our stories in public

Of all the things we may do to enhance the community’s understanding of
‘mental illness’, telling our own story is one of the most powerful. But, while it may

seem relatively straightforward, it’s often the hardest thing we can do, bringing with it
an unprecedented level of exposure. There are a number of considerations to keep in

mind, particularly if you are thinking of telling your story in a public or semi-public
forum.

Everyone likes to be heard and this is particularly pertinent for consumers,

who may feel that they have been silenced – by family who are embarrassed by us,
members of the general public who don’t know where to look in our presence, and a

mental health system that often fails to trust what we say. To be invited to hold the

stage, even if it is only for 10 minutes, can be seductive – but think carefully before
you commit yourself.

There are consumers who do other things to promote changed attitudes to
‘mental illness’ but who draw the line at telling their own story. One of the main

reasons for this is because they believe that consumers should be seen as experts, with
important information to impart to the community, not just the emotive human

interest story which usually comes at the beginning or end of a forum and can be seen

as fundamentally less informative than what the ‘learned professionals’ have to say.
Still, stories can be incredibly powerful; even more so when they come from a very

personal place. If you do decide to go ahead, the next step is to think about the
boundaries and protections that you may want to put in place.

Realistically consider the exposure

Tongues wag and stories can be embroidered. Once you launch yourself, particularly into

the public domain, there is no going back. Of course, you can ask your audience for respect,

but be aware that whatever you say may remain in the public domain long after your
presentation has concluded.

Remember too that telling your story may well be an emotional experience for you,
especially if you are speaking publicly about yourself for the first time. Check with yourself

if you are ready for that exposure.

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