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Sefer Chafetz Chayim
                                Hilchot Esurei Rechilut
                                       Kelal Alef                                            219   K8/12.   daily Halacha: 9 Kislev, 9 nissan, 9 av;        leap year- 13 Kislev, 22 adar ii,  3 av

                                                                                             225   K8/13.   daily Halacha: 10 Kislev, 10 nissan, 10 av;   leap year-  14 Kislev, 23 adar ii,  4 av
             neither completely untruthful nor gossip, then one should respond in
             that framework and not lie.  However if he (the speaker) understands            231   K9/1.   daily Halacha: 11 Kislev, 11 nissan, 11 av;       leap year- 15 Kislev, 24 adar ii,  5 av
             that the person who asked the question will not be satisfied with               247   K9/3.    daily Halacha: 12 Kislev, 12 nissan, 12 av;       leap year- 16 Kislev, 25 adar ii,  6 a
             this type of answer, then it is permitted to respond with an answer             257   K9/5.    daily Halacha: 13 Kislev, 13 nissan, 13 av;       leap year- 17 Kislev, 26 adar ii,  7 av
             that is an absolute lie in order to maintain peace.  But one may not
             swear (15), G-d forbid, to a response which is a lie, even for the              261   K10/1.   daily Halacha: 14 Kislev, 14 nissan, 14 av;     leap year- 18 Kislev, 27 adar ii,  8 av
             sake of maintaining peace.  (Please see the following Be’er Mayim               297   K10/3.   daily Halacha: 15 Kislev, 15 nissan, 15 av;     leap year- 19 Kislev, 28 adar ii,  9 av
             Chayim).                                                                        299   K10/4.   daily Halacha:               leap year- 20 Kislev, 29 adar ii, 10 av

                                                                                             313   K10/5.   daily Halacha: 16 Kislev, 16 nissan, 16 av;     leap year- 21 Kislev, 1 nissan, 11 av
             Be'er Mayim Chayim on page 127
                                                                                             327   K10/7.   daily Halacha: 17 Kislev, 17 nissan, 17 av;     leap year- 22 Kislev, 2 nissan, 12 av
             RK /9.    Understand  clearly  that  even  if  the  speaker  does  not
             reveal the identity of the person (“Plony”) who was talking about               337   K10/9.   daily Halacha: 18 Kislev, 18 nissan, 18 av;     leap year- 23 Kislev, 3 nissan, 13 av
             this  listener  (16)  and  the  speaker  disclosed  what  had  been  said       347   K10/11.  daily Halacha: 19 Kislev, 19 nissan, 19 av;   leap year-  24 Kislev, 4 nissan, 14 av
             about this listener just as a matter of fact (17) (without mentioning           367   K10/13.  daily Halacha: 20 Kislev, 20 nissan, 20 av;   leap year-  25 Kislev, 5 nissan, 15 av
             Plony’s name) and because of this disclosure the identity of “Plony”
             became known.  Or if the essence of what “Plony” said or did was                375   K10/14.  daily Halacha:                leap year- 26 Kislev, 6 nissan, 16 av
             already known to the listener (the “victim”) but he did not know the            383   K10/15.  daily Halacha: 21 Kislev, 21 nissan, 21 av;   leap year-  27 Kislev, 7 nissan, 17 av
             identity of “Plony” and now this speaker came and led him along                 387   K10/17.  daily Halacha: 22 Kislev, 22 nissan, 22 av;   leap year-  28 Kislev, 8 nissan, 18 av
             with a series of hints and suggestions (18) until the listener realized
             “Plony’s” identity; this too is forbidden.                                                                  Volume 4
      Mekor Hachayim  RK / 0.  Similarly,  it  is  forbidden  to  gossip  using  a  trick  (19)   99   rK1/1.   daily Halacha: 23 Kislev, 23 nissan, 23 av;   leap year- 30 Kislev, 10 nissan, 20 av
             Be'er Mayim Chayim on page 129



             (to camouflage the speaker’s real intent), that the speaker knows
                                                                                                                                          leap year-  29 Kislev, 9 nissan, 19 av
             that once “Plony” did something inappropriate to this listener or
                                                                                                 rK1/3.   daily Halacha:
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             demeaned him and there was conflict between them and now this
                                                                                                                                          leap year-  1 tevet, 11 nissan, 21 av
                                                                                             109   rK1/4.   daily Halacha: 24 Kislev, 24 nissan, 24 av;
             speaker wants to re-ignite this old conflict between “Plony” and the
             listener, but the speaker does not want the “listener” to be aware of
             what he is actually doing.  And so this speaker begins smooth-talking
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                                                                                                 rK1/8.   daily Halacha: 26 Kislev, 26 nissan, 26 av;
                                                                                                                                          leap year-  3 tevet, 13 nissan, 23 av
             the listener and seemingly, casually mentions the bad episode that              115   rK1/6.   daily Halacha: 25 Kislev, 25 nissan, 25 av;   leap year-  2 tevet, 12 nissan, 22 av
             the listener experienced as though the remark was totally innocent              127   rK1/10. daily Halacha: 27 Kislev, 27 nissan, 27 av;   leap year-  4 tevet, 14 nissan, 24 av
             and that he was not even aware of it.  And because the speaker made             133   rK2/1.   daily Halacha: 28 Kislev, 28 nissan, 28 av;    leap year- 5 tevet, 15 nissan, 25 av
             those remarks, the listener recalls the episode and the “bad” that              139   rK2/3.   daily Halacha: 29 Kislev, 29 nissan, 29 av;    leap year- 6 tevet, 16 nissan, 26 av
             “Plony” had done to him.  These remarks and everything else like                    If the month of Kislev has only 29 days, then the learning for the 30  day is incorportated into the 29  day
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             them are absolutely forbidden.
                                                                                             145   rK3/1.   daily Halacha: 30 Kislev, 30 nissan, 30 av;      leap year- 7 tevet, 17 nissan, 27 av
                                                                                             157   rK3/2.   daily Halacha: 1 tevet, 1 eyar, 1 elul;             leap year- 8 tevet, 18 nissan, 28 av
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