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Sefer Chafetz Chayim                  םייח ץפח רפס
 Hilchot Esurei Lashon Hara        ערה ןושל ירוסיא תוכלה
 Kelal Zayin  -  Halachah 2             ד הכלה -  ז ללכ


 will help somewhat to remove people’s mistaken impression (about this    ירה 'וכו ותעומש תמחמ םישייבתמ ויריבחש וא
 law).  I will also include in this discussion details of the esur of accepting
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 Rechilut as truth  so that I won’t have to repeat them a second time later on    ןושל לכה תונושל ראש ןכו ,ושייבתנש בתכ אלש
 in the second half of this sefer dealing with the laws of Rechilut.   עמשנ םימעפ המכש תורוהל ,רבע ןושל אלו הוה
 One of the proofs to what I explained above is clarified in the 2  Kelal    ז"י ןירדהנסב ורמאש ןינעכו ,הז לע רבעש וילע
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 (in the 2  notation of the Be’er Mayim Chayim), that it is forbidden to
 believe Lashon Hara and Rechilut even if the remarks are made in the    ןיידעש םיאבנתמ ביתכ אכה ואבנתיו ביתכ םתה
 presence of three people or even if the remarks are made directly to the   .ןה םיאבנתמ
 “victim,” because these two cases are inclusive of the same law, as I wrote
 above.  Another proof comes from the Rambam in the 7  perek of Hilchot
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 De’Aut. In the very beginning of the 3 halacha he writes that Chazal have    יאה ןכ םג בתכש ןיואל ג"מסב ןכ םג עמשמ ןכו
 taught three people are killed by Lashon Hara, the speaker, the listener    אציש הז לע בתכו הינעמוש ינסד ןאמ יאה ארמימ
 who believes those remarks and the victim; and the listener is punished
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 more severely than the speaker.  Then right after that, in the 5  halacha, he    יאדוד ג"מסה תנוכש חכומו ,יאדוב ער םש וילע
 writes – “whether one speaks Lashon Hara directly to the victim or makes    ותוזבל רתומ אהיש ךומסל ןיא אמלעב לוק לע
 his remarks without the victim being present” – the implication being that
 in all circumstances it is also forbidden to believe it and we’ve explained    ו"כ( תובותכמ םגו ל"נה הדנד ארמגמ עמשמדכ
 before that the Rambam includes both Lashon Hara and Rechilut in this    םג עמשמ היניקסאו דחא דע אתאו ארמגב )ב"ע
 law.
                       כ"או םש י"שריפש ומכ דחא דעמ ערג לוקד ןכ
 Truthfully,  this  concept  is  crystal  clear,  that  even  if  we  presumed  that    היבוטד השעמב )ב"ע ג"יק( םיחספב ןנירמאד ןויכ
 Lashon Hara is permitted when it is not spoken directly to the victim if
 the speaker knows that he would certainly have said his comments when    ןינעלמ ץוח ללכ ךומסל ןיא דחא דע ירבד לעד
 the victim was present to hear them, that presumption is relevant only to    ףיסוה ןכ לע אמלעב לוק לע ןכש לכ ןוממ תעובש
 the speaker because he knows the remarks are true and he would have
 no hesitancy telling them directly to the victim.  But that presumption    המכ ידי לע ררבתנש 'יפו יאדווב תבית ג"מסה
 does not apply to the listener who does not know if the remarks are true.      םירבד ןיעכ אוהו דימת וב ןיאורש םירעוכמ םירבד
 And just because the speaker was brazen enough to make his defamatory
 remarks directly to the victim, would that be a basis for the listener to    ל"נכו דימת וילע עמשנש וא הז ןינעל םירכינה
 believe the remarks were really true?   .י"שר שוריפל

 In order that your Yetzer Hara not cause you to make a mistake – and you
 would go looking for leniencies to allow this “listening,” and build these    )ז"ט ףדב( ק"ומב ש"ממ ונירבד לע תושקהל ןיא ןכו
 leniencies on thin air, by rationalizing and saying “How can I not believe
 this speaker of Lashon Hara or this gossip?  If it was a lie, how could he    'ר קפנ רתסב היהי הרות ירבדש רמאו שרדש יברב
                       'רל ז"יע ףזנו דפקיאו יבר עמש אקושב שרדו אייח
  	  Here,	 in	 the	 context	 of	 the	 halachot	 of	 this	 Kelal,	 the	 Chafetz	 Chayim	 is
 specifically addressing Rechilut conveyed in the presence of Plony (the person      single witness who testified the man was a Kohein and his privileges were
 who initiated the remarks or the action directed against the “victim”) and he   reinstated.  Rashi points out that a single witness’ testimony is stronger
 is not addressing the concept of the general acceptace of Rechilut as truth.  than a rumor.




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