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Sefer Chafetz Chayim               םייח ץפח רפס
 Hilchot Esurei Lashon Hara     ערה ןושל ירוסיא תוכלה
 Kelal Yud                          'י ללכ - םייחה רוקמ


 in the category of people who  habitually speak Lashon Hara and    וֹתוֹאל רבדּה תוֹלּגל רוּסאֶשׁ ,ןכֶּשׁ לכו .תוּליִכרְ תוֹכלִהבּ
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 he also violates several other of the esurim described above in the
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 Introduction.  Please see that reference.    הזדּ ,תמאל אנּקַל וֹתנוּכֶּשׁ ףא ,וילע רבּדֶּשׁ ,אפוּגּ ינוֹלְפּ
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 The  Fifth Condition: The speaker’s sole motivation can only be to    גלגלְמ םיִתוּחְפּה ןִמ דחא םִא וּלִּפא ,הרָוּמגּ תוּליִכרְ אוּה
 achieve a useful outcome.  (Please see the following Hagahah).  The   .וֹבּרַ וֹא ויִבא אוּהו ,לארְָשׂיבֶּשׁ בוּשׁחה ןִמ
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 desire to achieve a positive outcome is the very foundation of this
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 The  Sixth  Condition:  If  the  speaker  is  able  to  achieve  a  useful
 outcome by some other means without having to publicly disclose    אלֹ ןידֲַע םִא ףא ,םירִחאל רבדּה רפּסל רָתּמדּ םיִמעְפוּ .ו
 what he saw, then in all circumstances it is forbidden to disclose the   ִ  ַ  ֵ  ֲ  ַ  ָ  ָ  ַ  ֵ  ַ  ְ  ֻ  ְ  ָ
 incident he saw.  Even if he becomes obligated to report to others    ןוֹדּנּהל עיגּיֶּשׁ )אכ( האוֹר אוּה םִא וּניהדּ ,ןוֹדּנּהל עדַוֹנ
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 the incident that he witnessed, in doing so he must minimize the
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 “crime” to the extent that this person will not become degraded in    םיִטרְָפּה ןכּ םגּ הזבּ וּרסחי אלֹו )בכ( ,שׁמּמ תלעוֹתּ הזִּמ
 the esteem of these listeners.  If the outcome he is trying to achieve    ןינִעבּ  ירַבדּ  תא  ראבאו  .םייּח  םימ  ראבִבּ  ןיּעו  ,ל"נּה
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 to minimize (38) the crime and not disclose the instigator’s shame    ,ןוֹגכּ  ,הזבּ  תוֹעְטִל  ארֵוֹקּה  אוֹבי  אלֶֹּשׁ  ידֵכּ  ,תלעוֹתּה
 since the desired outcome can be reached by this other means.
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               ,רוּפִּסּה  ןינִע  יִפלוּ  לכוֹרה  שׁיִאה  עבֶטבּ  ריִכּמ  אוּהֶשׁ
 The  Seventh  Condition:  In  disclosing  what  he  witnessed,  the    וּנּמִּמ ךְכּ רחא ךְלי ןכּ ,וינפבּ וֹתוֹא הנּגְמ אוּהֶשׁ וֹמכֶּשׁ
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 the law requires had the speaker testified against the instigator in    המ יִפל ,טרְָפִבוּ ,םירִחא םיִשׁנא ינְפִבּ דוֹע וֹתוֹא הנּגיו                                           VOL-3
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 Mekor Hachayim  ֿ K10/15.    And  now  my  brother,  see  what  great  discretion  is    וּנלּכּ טעְמִכּ יִכּ ,םיִבּרַה וּניֵתוֹנוֲֹעבּ ,עוּדי הז רבדו .וירָבדּ               3
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               לבּקִ  אלֹו  ,וֹחיִכוֹהו  ,םדֶֹקִּמ  וֹחיִכוֹהל  ךְירִצדּ  ,וּנבַתכֶּשּׁ
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               בוֹרקָו ,ערָה ןוֹשׁל תלבּקַבּ ,טרְָפִבוּ ,ערָה ןוֹשׁלבּ ןיִלָשׁכנ
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               ךְכּ רחא הֶשׁקָ היהיו ,וֹלֶּשׁ ערָה ןוֹשׁלה לבּקְַתִתֶּשׁ ,רבדּה
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 needed to decide what circumstances would permit speaking out
 and disclosing the details of this incident because at the moment
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 of speaking Lashon Hara unless he protects himself by observing    םָתוֹא ינְפִל וֹמצע תא םידּקְיֶּשׁ ,רבדּה ןוֹכנ יאדּובּ ןכל
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               רפּסיו ,לגּרְַמה לֶשׁ וֹתלוע לדֶֹגּ םהינְפִל ךְירֲִעיו ,םיִשׁנאה
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 and fourth rules.  Regarding this, it is obvious that “Death and life    אלֹ לע םנִּחבּ ינוֹלְפּ וֹתוֹאל הנּגְמ אוּהֶשׁ ךְיא ,םהינְפִל
 reside in one’s mouth” (Mishle 1 : 1).  Unless the speaker cares to    רפּסיו לגּרְַמה ךְכּ רחא אוֹבי רֶשׁאכֶּשׁ ידֵכּ ,וֹפּכבּ סמח
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 event he experienced, then most certainly in any way he chooses    ,וינפּ לע וּהוּחיִכוֹי ,הבּרַדּאו ,וירָבדּ וּלבּקְַתי אלֹ ,םהינְפִל
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