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Introduction to                        החיתפ
 Sefer Chafetz Chayim               םייח ץפח רפסל
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                                      ד ואל - ןיואל

 sins and merits were equally balanced in numbers and a desecration of    שׁי ךְא .הרָוֹתּבּ ןיִשׁרָֹפְמה ןיואל לע רֹבֲעיֶּשׁ ,וֹרבח ינְפִל
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 scales against him (Mishnayot Avot, 4  perek, 4  mishnah).  Even if one    הז ואלבּ רבוֹע רפּסְמהדּ ,הזבּ לבּקְַמהו רפּסְמה ןיבּ קוּלִּח
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 would not matter if it was done intentionally or unintentionally.   וּבּרְַתיֶּשׁ לכּ הבּרַדּאו ,םיִטעוּמ וֹא םיִבּרַ םיִעְמוֹשּׁה םִא ןיבּ
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 Understand  clearly  that  this  Lav  of  “Do  not  cause  My  Holy  Name  to    לוֹשׁכִמ ןֵתוֹנ אוּה יִכּ ,הזּה ואלּה וילע הבּרְַתי ,םיִעְמוֹשּׁה
 be desecrated” is relevant in each of the eight qualities because this sin
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 extends to all of these eight circumstances.   רבוֹע וֹניאדּ רָשׁפא ,לבּקְַמה ןכ אלֹ .םיִשׁנא המּכּ ינְפִל
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               ערָה ןוֹשׁלה הָתּע וּנּמִּמ עֵמוֹשׁ וֹדּבל אוּה םִא קרַ ,הז ואלבּ
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               וֹל היה אלֹ ,וֹלצאֵמ הָתּע ךְלוֹה היה וּלִּאו ,תוּליִכרְה וֹא
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 Daily Halacha: 13 Tishri, 12 Shevat, 12 Sivan;   Leap Year- 13 Tishri, 22 Shevat, 2 Sivan
 Mekor Hachayim   וידעלִבּ שׁי םִא לבא ,וֹלֶּשׁ אָשׁיִבּ אנָשִּׁלּה רפּסל יִמ לא
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 L7.  There are circumstances where the speaker also violates (7)    עֵמוֹשּׁה רבוֹע ןיאדּ ,רָשְׁפא ,הֶשֲׂעמ תֵעבּ םירִחא םיִעְמוֹשׁ
 the Lav of (Vayikrah 19:17) “Do not hate your fellow Jew secretly
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 in your heart.”  For example, if someone greets his friend pleasantly    החיִתְפִבּ םיִשׁרָֹפְמה םירִחא ןיואל לע םִא יִכּ ,הז ואל לע
 but in his absence, while in the presence of other people, he degrades    .םייּח םימ ראבִבּ ןיּעו ,וֹז
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 his friend, and all the more so if he tells other people not to tell this
 friend what he said about him, he is most certainly in violation of
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 this Lav.     ןוֹשׁארִה  לבא  ,רוּפִּסּה  תלחְתה  רחא  אבּ  םִא  הז  לכו
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               העוּמְשּׁה לא ךְכּ רחא וּאבֶּשׁ ףא ,וינפל רפּסל ליִחְתִהֶשׁ                                                                                                       VOL-1
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 Be’er Mayim Chayim   לכבּ( ינוגּ לכבּ רבוֹע יאדּובּ ,םיִשׁנא דוֹע תאֹזּה הערָה
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 (L7)  circumstances where the speaker also violates … do not   .רוּסִּאה לחְתה וֹדי לע יִכּ )םינפאה
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 hate secretly:   Even though the Gemara Arachin (16b) teaches that the
 Torah is describing someone who hates secretly in his heart. This is also the
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 of the 6  perek, as follows:  Someone who hits a fellow Jew or curses him,   ֶ  ֵ  ָ  ֲ  ֵ  ָ  ְ  ָ  ִ  ָ  ָ
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 even though it is not permitted, still he does not violate the Lav of  “Do    עַשׁרֶ תרַוּבח םֵשׁבּ ןיִבָתּכנ םלּכּ הלְעמל יִכּ ,םהמִּע בֵשׁיל
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 not secretly hate.”  The Rambam is specifically addressing one who curses
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 another Jew and even if this Jew who curses hates his fellow Jew to the    הוִּצֶּשׁ  לוֹדגּה  רזעיִלא  יִבּרַ  תאוּצבּ  )בוּתכּ(  אָתיִא  ןכ  יִכּ
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 from him (to stay away from him).  But when someone hates secretly,    תוֹרוּבחבּ  בֵשֵׁתּ  לא  ,ינבּ  :וֹנוֹשׁל  הזו  ,וֹנבּ  סוּנקְרְוֹהל
 in his heart, and it is not apparent, it can  cause far more damage to the    הלְעמל םיִלוֹע םירִבדּהֶשׁכּ יִכּ ,םהירֵבחֵמ יאנגּ םירְִמוֹאה
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 “victim” because he is not aware and has no way of protecting himself.
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 Therefore the Torah specifically forbids this mindset of hatred.  In this    תרַוּבח םֵשׁבּ ןיִבָתּכנ םָשׁ םידְִמוֹעה לכו ,ןיִבָתּכנ רפסּבּ -
 regard there are two negative factors: (1) that one person hates another
 to the point where he can act upon that hatred and (2) this other person   .עַשׁרֶ
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