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administration and permanent record                      Why is having a place to visit so
           keeping       (determining        ownership,             important?
           obtaining permission and the completion                  To  remember  and  to  be  remembered
           of other documentation which may                         are natural human needs. A permanent
           be required, entering the interment                      memorial in a cemetery provides a focal
           particulars in the interment register,                   point for remembrance and memorializing
           maintaining  all  legal  files);  opening  and           the deceased. Throughout human history,
           closing the grave (locating the grave and                memorialization of the dead has been a
           laying out the boundaries, excavating and                key component of almost every culture.
           filling the interment space); installation               Psychologists  say  that  remembrance
           and removal of the lowering device;                      practices,  from  the  funeral or memorial
           placement and removal of artificial grass                service to permanent memorialization,
           dressing  and coco-matting  at  the grave                serve an important emotional function for
           site, leveling, tamping, re-grading and                  survivors by helping them bring closure
           sodding the grave site and leveling and                  and allowing the healing process to begin.
           re-sodding the grave if the earth settles.               Providing a permanent resting place for
                                                                    the  deceased is a  dignified  treatment
           Can we dig our own grave to avoid the                    for a loved one’s mortal remains, which
           charge for opening and closing?                          fulfills the natural human desire for
           The actual opening and closing of the                    memorialization.
           grave is just one component of the
           opening and closing fee. Due to safety                   What  happens  when  a  cemetery  runs
           issues which arise around  the use of                    out of land?
           machinery on cemetery property and                       When a cemetery runs out of land,
           the protection of other gravesites, the                  it will continue to operate and serve
           actual opening and closing of the grave                  the     community.       Most      cemeteries
           is conducted by cemetery grounds                         have crematoriums, and some historic
           personnel only.                                          cemeteries even offer guided tours.







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