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Memorial or Tribute                                      •  What music should be played?
                                                                  •  What readings would you like to
         Service                                                      have?
                                                                  •  Is there a special poem you’d like
         At a memorial or tribute service, a casket                   shared with the guests?
         or urn is usually not present. Otherwise                 •  Are there any special photographs
         similar to a funeral or visitation, a                        or other memorabilia you would like
         memorial service gives family and friends                    displayed?
         a time to come together in your memory                   •  Should the décor reflect a particular
         and celebrate your life.
                                                                      hobby or interest of yours, such as
                                                                      fishing, gardening or music?
         Graveside Service                                        •  Is there a particular emblem
                                                                      or engraving you want on your
         As its name implies, a graveside service                     headstone or marker?
         may be held at the grave site just prior                 •  Should there be refreshments served
         to burial of a casket or urn, and usually                    or a more elaborate party held after
         consists of final remarks, prayers or                        the service?
         memories. The service may occur after or
         in place of a funeral service.
                                                                  Cemetery Property
         There’s no one, right way to plan a funeral              In addition to funeral services and the
         service, we believe that each funeral                    choice  of  burial or cremation,  cemetery
         should be as unique and  memorable as                    property, or “interment rights,” is another
         the life it honors.
                                                                  consideration when you’re making final
                                                                  arrangements, either for yourself in
         When planning your own funeral service                   advance, or for a loved one.
         in advance, think about the way you
         want to be remembered. Perhaps you’d                     A common misconception that people
         like a traditional funeral aligned with                  often have when they purchase the right
         certain religious or ethnic customs. Or, a               of interment in a cemetery is that they
         celebration focusing on great memories                   have purchased the land itself, when  in
         made with family and friends may be your                 fact what they have really purchased is
         preference. Maybe it’s a combination                     the right to be interred (also referred to as
         of both. You can have one service, or                    buried, entombed, enniched or placed)
         several, to honor your life.
                                                                  on or in that particular piece of property.

         Regardless of the service or services you
         choose to include in your funeral plan, you              Burial
         can personalize them in almost any way                   Most people are familiar with the concept
         imaginable. For example, just consider                   of burial, or “interment,” but may not be
         the following questions:
                                                                  aware of the variety of options that are
                                                                  often available. Many cemeteries offer
         •  Where should the funeral be held? At                  one or more of the following:
             your place of worship? At the funeral
             home?
         •  Who should officiate the service?                     •  Ground Burial: burial of the casket
                                                                      below ground. A “vault” or “outer
         •  Will your service adhere to the                           burial container” is required at many
             traditions of your faith or culture?                     cemeteries.
         •  Do you want a eulogy, and who                         •  Mausoleum, or Community
             should deliver it?                                       Mausoleum: a large building
         •  Would you like an open or closed                          that provides above-ground
             casket?


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