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them laugh, but be respectful. A funeral                 passing of a loved one as newsworthy. In
           is not a roast, however there is room for                this situation, the newspaper will print an
           humor in your eulogy. Fondly remember                    obituary at no cost to the family. A death
           a story about the person that everyone                   notice, in contrast is a means by which
           can relate to. Keep it appropriate, there                the family uses the newspaper to inform
           will be children and the elderly there who               relatives and friends of the passing. The
           may not share the same sense of humor.                   family is charged for the death notice, and
           Laughter is truly the best medicine, and                 the timing of the print is usually the day
           some well-placed humor will help people                  before the planned arrangements begin.
           cope, and will bring back fond memories                  The death notice will contain the name of
           of the deceased.                                         the deceased, age, where they are from,
                                                                    date of passing, relations, arrangements,
           Don’t be afraid to show emotion.                         service date, time and location, final
           Funerals are an extremely emotional                      disposition and if charitable donations
           event, nobody expects you not to shed                    are requested.
           a few tears. However, if you feel that you
           will be too strongly overcome by your                    Remember, most newspapers charge for
           emotions, have a back-up plan in place                   death notices, and they charged by the
           where someone you trust can deliver the                  line. Each line contains approximately
           eulogy for you. Give them a copy well in                 four words. The funeral director will assist
           advance if you feel this could be an issue.              you in creating the correct format and
                                                                    editing in order to minimize charges.
           Have a glass of water as well as tissues
           handy.                                                   Writing an obituary is a difficult and
                                                                    emotional task. First, you will need to
           Obituaries and Death                                     gather information from family and friends
                                                                    of the deceased about their childhood,
           Notices                                                  education, career and hobbies and
                                                                    interests. Also, speak to the funeral home
           Occasionally a newspaper will consider the               to receive any important information on




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