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y    It is up to you to intentionally
                                                                              manage your relationship with
                                                                              your boss and help them to be a
                                                                              more effective manager and a better
                                                                              boss to you. If there are hiccups or
                                                                              breakdowns in the relationship, it
                                                                              is in your interest to act promptly to
                                                                              have those issues addressed in a way
                                                                              that works for both of you.
                                                                            y    The boss is only one-half of the
                                                                              relationship. You are the other half
                                                                              — the half you have more control
                                                                              over. Developing an effective
                                                                              working relationship requires
                                                                              self-awareness and adjustment —
                                                                              of your own needs, strengths and
                                                                              weaknesses, personal style, how you
                                                                              work with others, and what you may
                                                                              be resisting.
                                                                            y    Managing up is a skill you can
                                                                              learn over time. Sitting back and
                                                                              complaining does not help. By
                                                                              honing your “managing up” skills
                                                                              and improving your rapport with
                                                                              your boss, you’re investing in a
                                                                              happier, more fulfilling workplace.
                                                                            Strategies for managing up
                                                                            Managing up is often situational;
                                                                            however, from navigating my career, I’ve
                                                                            learned that one can manage up
                                                                            effectively and strengthen your
                                                                            partnership with your manager by doing
                                                                            well in four vital areas.
                                                                            1. Understand your boss’s style
                                                                            and preferences
                                                                            This will enable you to adapt your
                                                                            approach and communication with them
                                                                            responsively. Consider four ways to do
                                                                            this:

                                                                            Ask what their biggest priorities and
                                                                            concerns are
                      hile many workplace   influence your career trajectory. When   Sometimes, keeping your ears close to the
                      relationships       the relationship works well, you both   ground (networking, not gossiping) will
                      contribute to career   enjoy effective two-way communication,   help you understand the challenges that
                      success, successful   clear expectations, good alignment,   your boss is facing in the organisation. If
         W corporate executives           mutual trust, respect, and camaraderie.   you know what achievements would
         will tell you that they never took their   Naturally, your organisation also benefits   make your boss a success in the eyes of
         boss for granted and actively managed   from the harmonious and productive   their own boss and senior management,
         up to cultivate productive and positive   relationship. Managing up can also help   support them in that.
         relationships with their seniors.  you find common ground with a difficult
           Managing up is not about blind   manager or a manager who doesn’t work   Understand your boss’s
         following or ingratiating yourself. It is   or think the way you do; it can result in a   communication preferences
         also not about tolerating bosses who   manager who’s willing to advocate for   Some bosses are very hands-on, others
         behave disrespectfully or        you when the need arises.         like to manage by exception (ie, identify
         inappropriately. It’s about consciously   The purpose of this article is to remind   issues that deviate from the norm and
         developing good and trusting     you of these key principles to manage up   manage those). Does your boss prefer
         relationships with the people who can   effectively:               grabbing a coffee together rather than

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