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LESSON: 08

               IMPROVE YOUR CONFIDENCE:


                                                              “Low  self-esteem  is  like
                                                              driving through life with your
                                                              hand  brake  on.”  “Maxwell
                                                              Maltz”

                                                              Nobody is born with limitless
                                                              self-confidence.  If  someone
                                                              seems to have incredible self-
                                                              confidence, it is because he or
                                                              she worked on building it for
                                                              years.   Self-confidence   is
                                                              something  that  you  learn  to
                                                              build    up    because    the
                                                              challenging world of business
                                                              and life in general, can deflate
                                                              it.

                                                              Quran  says,  “O  my  Lord!
               Open for me my chest (grant me self-confidence, contentment, and boldness.”
               QURAN (SURAH TAHA: 25-26)

               I am giving you some steps to improve your confidence.

                       1.     GROOM YOURSELF:


                              This seems like such an obvious one, but it is amazing how much
                       of a difference a shower and a shave can make in your feelings of self-
                       confidence and your self-image. There have been days when I turned
                       my mood around completely with this one little thing.

                       2.     Dress nicely:


                              A corollary of the first item above --- if you dress nicely, you
                       will feel good about yourself. You’ll feel successful and presentable and

                       ready  to  tackle  the  world.  Now,  dressing  nicely  means  something
                       different for everyone … it doesn’t necessarily mean wearing a $500
                       outfit,  but  could  mean  casual  clothes  that  are  nice  looking  and
                       presentable.



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