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cause significant rifts in the relationships. This causes even more alienation

               and this is when the vicious cycle starts up.


               The actions of someone with self-defeating behavior will push away those

               that love them. These people not understanding the situation will often just

               not deal with a person. This can cause feelings of pain and betrayal in the

               person with self-defeating behavior which results in increased isolation and

               loneliness. This is when people start to get angry with them resulting in the

               toxic  person  syndrome  mentioned  earlier.  They  feel  that  they  are  just

               trouble and toxic  and  when  they  encounter  someone  their  actions cause


               the person to back away affirming the feeling that they are toxic.

















































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