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Perspective                                                                                                           My mission in


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                                                                                                                                       life is not merely










                                                       By April Riddle                                                                 to survive, but to




            My Ma came out butt first and from   I am proud to be my mother's child   In her home I was able to see her
            the very beginning knew that life    and see things from a different      example of honoring her husband,                 thrive; and to do
            could be viewed from more than one   angle. I tend to believe true kindness  disciplining her kids and studying her
            angle. In her younger years, Ma's    is displayed more by what we don't   bible to grow closer to God, not just
            individuality was often seen as      do than by what we do. Let me        to check it off her to do list. In my
            rebellion and frowned upon by her    explain. When I first became a       heart, Carol's kindness came across
            parents and educators. If I were to  believer in, and follower of the     not in what she did do as much as                so with some
            be honest, while I loved the fun and  teachings of Jesus Christ I was a   what she didn't do. She didn't judge,
            freedom in her artistic approach to  chain-smoking twenty-something       gossip, demand, try to fix, or
            life at home, in public it could be  stay at home mom. I kept my kids     manipulate. She slowly, prayerfully,
            embarrassing. I sometimes resented   and the house healthy and clean, but  came alongside me, shared what
            that she just wouldn't, or couldn’t, be  I had a mouth like a trucker, a  she knew and let me see how she                  passion, some
            "normal."                            fondness for gossip and a bit of a   lived. I am a better person for having
                                                 temper. I had a conversation with    known her and will forever be
                                                 God in my living room but had no     grateful for the kindness she showed
                    Entering the                 church family or Christian friends.  me.
                                                 Then I met Carol.                                                                     compassion,
                 world backwards,
                                                 I needed transportation, Carol had a
                     gives life a                car and a heart to help. She began
                                                 picking me and the kids up once a
                      different                  week for appointments and what not.                                                   some humor, and

                    perspective                  I'm a talker so I shared, she listened
                                                 and could relate some of her
                                                 experience with my circumstances.
            Ma went to dance with the angels in
            2016, but before she did, we came to  She encouraged me to read, pray                                                      some style.
                                                 and fellowship, but didn't scowl and
                                                                                          April Riddle is passionate about
            a place of mutual love and respect                                           community outreach and leads an
            for one another that left room for us  point out all the things I'd done or  online women's bible study. Riddle
            both to just breathe and be          was doing that didn't line up with      started the Bible study during the
            ourselves. We were kind to one       what she was coming to believe was     COVID shut down to stay connected
            another.                             God's will and his way.                 during a time of social distancing.
                                                                                          Writing is her creative outlet and            MAYA ANGELOU
                                                 After a while Carol invited me to her
            I came to understand that more                                              April's s proud to begin utilizing it as a
            times than not, kindness is          home, introduced me to her family         paid intern for ZGP Magazine.
            determined by how you look and       and invited the kids and I to visit
            what you say or do.                  often with no time restraints.



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