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 I don't see anything wrong with this, if you are sure he is the kind of man
you would like to marry, be sure you have prayerfully considered it and
have peace about it, then go ahead, you also have to be sure your girlfriend

is totally through with him so it won't cause an issue between you two
dialogue with her to get her consent.

I need your advice.

3. People always use me to satisfy themselves either by my attention, my
company, advice, cooking, errands or hanging around them. Many of them

are so selfish and self-centered, when I need them they're not there for me,
but whenever they come back to me I still answer them this makes me
want to hate them and keep away from them because it kills me

emotionally

Response

 It's good you are someone people can come to for help, it shows you are a

trustworthy and dependable person but I must say don't always expect
these people to be your shoulder when you need help, the fact that you

helped them does not mean they must help you. The Bible says you would
reap what you sow, if you have sown the seed of care during your time

someone would certainly care for you, the reason you are not seeing the
help that comes for you is because you have your eyes fixed on the people

you have helped, keep an open mind and don't stop being good, stop
seeing it as being used rather be grateful to God for the privilege to meet

someone's need.

4. My husband hides his plans and other things from me and when I
discovered I started doing the same. Is that right?

Response

 It's not right to do just the same thing he did. Prayerfully find the best time
to discuss it. And then the fact that you discuss your own with him also has