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of every king is in God's hands. Turn him over to God and once you are

doing everything as unto God, just leave it to Him knowing that He is the
one who rewards all who diligently seek Him. Sometimes when we do

something and immediately expect a particular response in return, it gets
frustrating when it doesn't come. Do it in obedience to God and have your

peace. Don't be focused on the response from your husband, rather focus
on having a peaceful home and the other will follow.

10. I’ m not a new bride, I have waited for a while. I am a good cook, I clean d

house, myself, I allow him touch me when he needs me. Infact I do make
moves too but instead he will push me unless he is the one in the mood.

Response

 You must learn to keep doing right whether it feels good or not. Remain

submissive to him irrespective of his attitude towards you because this is a
command from God. We were not asked to submit only when we are loved.

The bible says - be weary but faint not, For there is a reward for them that
persevere. The challenge is that we give up to soon on trusting God to

change our situation. If your husband is a product made fearfully and
wonderfully by God just as you are, then it is God's duty to fix him if he is

dysfunctional.
So my dear, remain absolutely submissive to him because he represents

Christ in the home (whether or not he is representing well), and keep taking
him to God in prayers untiringly. If your chaste conduct is not enough to
change him, God is more than enough to.

11. How do you keep a clean house, when you don’t have a help, and you work
as well?

Response

 You can plan on how you want do your cleaning.... If you work and your job
requires you to be out of the house early like 7-7:30 and you have kids that

you have to prep for school then you have to wake up very early like 4:00