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the ability to break him. Remember this continuous loving and forgiving

aspect of submission

5. Since it's only in marriage that sexual union is a blessing.....why is it that
some married ones use sex within their marriage as a tool of manipulation.

Response

 The major reason is lack of knowledge and understanding of what marital
relationship is. If the sacrificial aspect of marriage relationship is well

understood, there will be no use of sexual weapon to manipulate emotions.
Sex is meant to be enjoyed by the two persons joined together in marriage.
If sex is later used as one to affect the other's well being, there is need for

help through communication, mind renewal, practical use of marital guides
like mutual respect, submission and fore bearing love.

6. If I discover my husband’s penis is too big can I divorce him?

Response

 When you get married, you get a total package. You don't go to the market
to buy a pregnant goat only to reject the kid after delivery. So the big penis

and all are yours. It's not a reason for divorce.
 No, you cannot divorce after a Christian marriage because the man is

endowed physically. The truth is that no man's penis is as large as a new
born baby that passes through the vagina. Nevertheless, the wife may feel

some pain initially while they get to know each other. But as they keep at it,
she will adapt. Moreover, there are lubrication gels to be used by both of

them, as well as foods to eat or drink to help the woman get real wet for
him.

7. How can one prepare for sex before marriage ?

Response